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Sep 13, 2009
It was "child on child sexual abuse"...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your mother is wrong, Nikki...6 years older constitutes sexual abuse, not innocent play; though your cousin was disturbed and possibly sexually abused himself. I suggest counselling for yourself, Nikki. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Sep 15, 2009
He knew what he was doing to you
by: maurice

Have no doubts Nicki4 your cousin knew exactly what he did to you in your mother's bedroom. He was wrong, very wrong, For your mother to say it was innocent fun was equally wrong, no wonder you had all the confusion around it, because of your innocence and vunerability an little knowledge about your body and the proper understanding of your sexuality you becoming sexually active at that tender age was quite natural, your mother should have talked to you about what was happening your body even at that age. she failed you big time. Now you have all the hang up about what you did or did not do from that early age. Always believe in yourself, Always have the highest respect for yourself. You and your body take ownership of. value your own beautifulness, prettiness, look in the mirror and acknowledge that your body is beautiful, eavery part of it. no naughty or ugly parts because of you being sexually active from a tender age. take control now and put your own respect and value on yourself and your body. You'll have peace of mind once you begin to do that. Talk to a therapist just to put yourself at ease about all that you've worked and journeyed through. Take charge of your own life NOW. I can, I will, I must just for me. Era go on give yoursefl a huge hug in front of the mirror and say I love me. It is a huge feel good feeling and acknowledgenment of yourself.

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