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Jul 15, 2008
Not your fault
by: Francine

Your mom and your sister are so evil and malicious! And no, you are not stupid! You are smart and beautiful! You might want to take counseling, God-blessed beloved girl, cuz you are worth the help. The only stupidity that I see comes from your sadistic mother and your sister.

Jul 15, 2008
Not Your Fault Part 2
by: Francine

BTW, Nicole, what your so-called mom and your so-called sister did to you is EXTREMELY PATHETIC AND UNGRATEFUL!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU SHOULD'VE DESERVED SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!! You don't ever deserve a mom/sister who would treat you with such anger, contempt nor even hostility; you deserved the mother/sister who would love, nurture you and protect you. Most kids are lucky to have a loving mom and sometimes a caring sister...you aren't as fortunate, sweetie; your mother and your sister are very twisted in their own ways of thinking. You should've been loved and cherished. Second of all, hun, NO ONE IS STUPID (including you)!!!!!!!!!! NO ONE'S AN IDIOT!!!!!!! I think your mom and your sis probably think it's alright to abuse and brutalize you; it's NOT!!!!!!!

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You still have somebody to talk to. I hope you are in a safe place now cuz you can always move on, unlike your mom and your sister; they will stay in their hell forever! I am delighted that your boyfriend's with you now cuz he is so sweet for doing that!

Jul 17, 2008
Congratulations
by: Hayley

Hi Nicole. In the light of your hell, it seems a very strange title for me to give this. You are so strong to go through all of this with only a short break when you lived with someone else. I know how it feels to be compared to a sibling, and not be able to talk or be as good as that person. It's horrible isn't it? You've done really well, proper people will be able to accept having a half blind friend/girlfriend. You have a boyfriend after all. I hope your so called mum and sister don't know about your upcoming engagement. Promise us all you won't let them know when your engagement is, or your wedding or if you become a mother, you won't let them know any of that. If they can treat you like that, I dread to think how they will treat any children you have.

Hang on in there, you've been so strong so far, and you can keep doing so.

Jul 18, 2008
Well
by: Anonymous

You are so brave and smart! All of us who where/are abused are proud that you lived! Go girl!

Jul 18, 2008
My heart hurts for you
by: Dee

It truly does. At an age when all you needed was love and guidance from your parents, you were receiving abuse and it seems like you were an outlet for your mother's rage or even mental disorder. Seems she brainwashed your sister too.

You had a tragic period in your life, and I a sorry for that. I can't understand why that would happen in life or how humans can be so cruel, but I admire you for trying your best to move on.

Does your mom ever try to contact you? Or does she not know how?

She'll get hers, you just try to do the best with what you have.

Jul 18, 2008
Not Your Fault Part 3
by: Francine

BTW again, Nicole, you have a lovely name! If I were you mom, I would NEVER beat you or try to kill you like yours almost killed you, but, instead, hug you, kiss you, let you hang out with your friends for a while, and of course, protect you from further harm of any kind, dear. As for smoking, drinking and suicide, DO NOT DO ANY OF THOSE!!!!!! EVER!!!!!!! You know much better than to do all these things and I hope you just quit smoking and drinking and attempting suicide cuz they just make matters worse, honey. Have you talked to a counsellor/therapist yet? If not, you should cuz I know you need help. Maybe you mom and your sister don't even know how precious you are, but YOU ARE AN ANGEL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope to god that your future child of any gender won't ever go through the same thing that you were forced to go through. To make this long comment short, I'm glad that you survived cuz you are a strong girl...and a smart one, too! As for suicide, I hope you won't try it anymore. Suicide will only let your mother and your sister win. Don't do it! And I hope you treat yourself better than anyone else had!

Mar 15, 2009
Thanks for giving me guidance
by: Nicole

Dear to All who replied my forum.Thanks for replying me.I really appreciate it.I am very sad to say i tried committed suicide in oct 2008, had 6 stitches,and am on medication to control & keep myself relax.I hope i can find an understandng person who can guide me through life as 18 years under controlled by a so called abnormal OWN mother, is very hard for me to think straight and normally as i feel like i have a few characters in me. E.g at this moment i can be very happy & caring, but my mood changes in like a few seconds to a very grumpy, angry and crazy fellow. I do not know how to control all these.Only on medication can helped me alot.i have quit drinking but not for smoking yet.but will try..
Anyway, i hope anyone here is listening and will show & give me some advice.Thanks alot.I love you guys...

P/s I replied so late is i don't have the guts to face this.

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