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Mar 08, 2010
Nena:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm so glad that you eventually told, and that your sister was able to adopt and take care of you and keep you safe. But don't EVER blame yourself for not telling earlier. You were so afraid, and for good reason. And don't EVER think that you "let" those sex offenders do what they did to you. They stole your innocence, and there was nothing you could have done to stop them physically. What's worse is the sick excuse for a human being that was your foster mother. I do hope you have some recourse available to you by reporting what happened in that house. There is no question in my mind that those sex offending boys are now sex offending adults. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 09, 2010
I am the winner over the abuse that was inflicted on me.
by: Maurice

Nena, Foster Homes, Foster Care is coming under serious scrutiny here this week in Ireland. You story sure brings out the atrocities of abuse that have been inflicted on Children supposeingly placed with safe caring/loving people. Daily we are hearing the abuse that went on in a percent of such homes was diabolical and horrendous. You sure are a real example of that. That Man and woman were so cruel on you. I hope you have told someone who can eradicate them from the List of carer families. They should not be even in charge of Animals. Nena, Darlene has re-assured you your abuse was inflicted on you, forced on you, you had no defence from it. It was never my fault. Please don't ever think that Nena. Your Sister is brilliant to you and your brother. A true sibling, loving, caring, Nena you are safe now. let her help you to tell the relevant people who can get justeice for you by having these sick pair put away from damageing other innocent girls children. Hi, put real love into your beautiful body, love and caress it, be gentle and kind to it. soothe and massage it all over especially the part that was horrendously abused by that animal of a man. Let others love and hug you especially the ones you trust. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. become active and alive with your own age group and peers in sporting and cultural activities. Team sports certainly allows us to acknowledge the beauty of our bodies and that of others. Always value and respect yourself. Always Believe in YOURSELF Nena. I will, I can, I must simply because I am WORTH it. Darlene, known effectionately as The Relationship Lady with a big heart for you and me and all her many visitors to her site. She is worth taking note of in the loving comment she made in reply to your story. She sure has proved there is a life to be fully lived after ABUSE. She was a victom, now she is preaching her victory over it. Nena look in that MIRROR. Love that beautiful and wonderful ME looking out at you. There's nobody looking cuddle and hug yourself to bits.Era go on you will feel good after it. One is never too old to acknowledge God's creation: He never created junk. just beautiful ME. Always believe in yourself. OK

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