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May 20, 2011
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted you are now out of that horrible environment and that you have some kind of a support system. But you're going to need more than what you already have as you continue to deal with the memories, flashbacks and nightmares. Please reach out for help. Contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. And I must also say that you can't protect your siblings from your abusive mother, much as you want to and believe you can. You don't know what you don't know. Even if you were living in mother's house, you likely couldn't protect them all the time. The best way is to report what your mother has done to you and what you suspect she may be doing to them. None of you deserve to be abuse. ALL of you deserve help for the fact that you were. And they were abused just witnessing the abuse your mother inflicted on you. Reach out to someone who can really help. You and your boyfriend are over your heads trying to do this alone. You all deserve more than that. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 22, 2011
Always believe in yourself: You'll be the winner over your abuser
by: maurice

Name Undisclosed99 I know there is one very special human being undisclosed to protect yourself more: You are gentle: loving: caring: with a beautiful body that was wrongly beaten to a pulp by a Mother: Great you broke free from such a horrid house: Father's abuse: Then having a mother who enabled him: But also hurt you physiaclly and mentally: You are brave: You are strong: You are a big Sister who cares about the bro and sis still under her roof: You'll do what you know to be best to keep them safe from her sick mind: Don't let her abuse them I know you won't: Hi Darlene has given you encourageing words: Loving words: Affirming words: Have a friend your own age and gender to tell, to share your heart feelings of the hurt that bad, bad woman left inside you through her abuse and humiliation of you: I AM NOT TO BLAME: IT WAS NEVER MY FAULT; I WAS TOO INNOCENT, VUNERABLE TO STOP THE MONSTER DOING ALL SHE DID TO ME: SURE NOT THE WAY TO LOVE AND CHERISH THE CHILD SHE CARRIED FOR NINE MONTH AND SAW SO BEAUTIFUL ON THE DAY OF YOUR BIRTH: A SICKO OF A WOMAN NOT DESERVEING THE NAME MOTHER: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Begin with some form of counselling: Then into a track suit and up up and out taking patr with your own age and gender taking part in sporting and cultural activities: especially team games: You are gifted: you are tallented; I am sure you have leadership qualities to be a good captain: I guarantee with in weeks you'll be a new thinking human being male/female: be gentle and kind to your body soothe it massage nice scented oils and creams into it and then hug and cuddle it: Celebrate You: You are worth celebrating: You are worth everything: I will: I can: I must: I'M SPECIAL AND I LOVE ME:

May 22, 2011
I'm glad you're safe now
by: Anonymous

I'm glad that you are in a safe place now; I just hope you try counselling and then report your so-called parents to the police for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you. You are not to blame for their sadistic behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you. I am thinking of you.

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