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Mar 20, 2011
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your step mom has serious problems, which is so evident when you consider what she said to you. I know it hurts when someone tells you such a horrible thing—I know how badly it hurts because it's what my mother used to tell me too. People say nasty things when they want to lash out at someone; that doesn't make what they say the truth. Your step mom is not telling you the truth. Just consider your friend as an example. Your friend loves you enough to listen to you and be there as a support for you. And you said yourself that you know your mom loves you, and so does your sister. I'll share something with you that I learned a long time ago: People who say nasty things to others are really thinking these nasty things about themselves. They're troubled people. Please consider talking to someone who can help you through this. Talk to your dad and/or your mom about how this has affected you. If that's not possible, a trusted teacher or school counselor. Consider also contacting one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. You ARE loved and you ARE lovable. Always remember that. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 20, 2011
The sooner, the better...Darlene is right!
by: Anonymous

Your stepmom is wrong. You are not unlovable; you are lovable and I'm sure that you have a friend who really cares about you and wants only the best for you. Your stepmom is disturbed and she needs help, but you need help too, so the sooner you tell someone, the better. Darlene is right! Besides your friend, please tell someone you trust.

Mar 22, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

"WOW" oh "WOW" you are one blessed child of God and the universe; what a loving heart comment from Darlene to you: It touched my heart reading her words to you: She is so beautifully woman with a heart of goodness and full of nature: That exactly what my mother used to say to me: That Step_Mother is cruel, nasty, not nice, WRONG, pay no heed to her nastiness: Be safe: Stay safe: having your friend, who listens, helps, cares and is concerned for you is the extra blessing coming through in your real heart telling what this woamn said to you: Get help, speak with a nice trusting kind teacher or a counsellor: Have a trusting adult to protect you with your own friends: One sure way special one: Is for you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: this will mean you taking part with your own and gender in team sports and sporting and cultural activities: there is safety in numbers: you'll make real and natural friends for life: you'll have many aquaintances who'll make you feel important and laugh when you meet casually: Always Believe in yourself: LOVE th me looking out at you from the mirror: HAVE AS YOUR MOTTO: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Because I am WORTH>WORTH IT: Live well Laugh alot LOVE much beginning and ending with yourself then share that love with your trusted family and friends; Have a healthy mind in a healthy body:

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