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Nov 19, 2010
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The fact that you love music and are so good at it is a huge self-esteem booster. Stay with it as much as you can. Always remember that you are worthy of dignity and respect. You ARE lovable. And you don't deserve to be mistreated. I really don't think you want to die; I think you want to be out of pain. I understand that all too well. Please consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you are dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counselors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 19, 2010
hello
by: Anonymous

please dont kill yourself, i no it may seen helpless but its not worth it u r worth so much more then that. my friends parent used to abuse her and she killed herself and i dont want that to happen to u. if life is really this bad i would just run away to a hostal or a homeless shelter untill u can get a job, it may be hard but its a better life then this. i was only young when this happend to my friend, she was 13 but i didnt really understant what she was goin through i wish i could have saved her.
so please whatever u do, DONT KILL YOURSELF!!!

Nov 20, 2010
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by: Anonymous

I am so sorry about what your so-called parents did to you. Most people who treat somebody the way you're still treated often do it out of jealousy because they think that they would never be the shining star that you are. You are a star. Your so-called parents are truly sick, twisted, confused and sadistic in their own ways of thinking...not to mention control freaks. They didn't deserve to have such a beautiful and talented kid like you; you didn't deserve to have such uncaring, uneducated, ignorant, unloving, sick, cruel, twisted, confused, jealous, sadistic parents. Oh, and it is not only wrong for your beast of a dad to beat the crap out of you for telling him about your wish to be a musician, but it's also wrong for your so-called mom to throw out one of your beloved instruments, an acoustic guitar, out of the window. Be happy and keep living your own musical life if you can...and if they still don't let you, then you might want to tell any trusted adult you can trust, such as a teacher, principal, police officer, sympathetic grandma/grandpa/aunt/uncle, a best friend's parents, etc.

Nov 25, 2010
I am very special: I am highly gifted: Always Believe in Yourself
by: maurice

Think Positive: Act Positive: Be Positive in all you do and say about yourself: You are full of self confidence that will be your goal to being famous in your own right one day: Your Parents are sure over pressureising you to be like them, to achieve like them especially your Father: They are very intelligent but ever so imatture as Parenthood: Being Parent's means you use your heart more than your head to LOVE and Cherish the dignity and the uniquensss of each individual child that they happened to be blessed with: You are beautiful: You are gifted: You are tallented: Hi, know you are intelligent too: You don't want to harm or hurt that beautiful body of yours: You want to live and make people happy with your music: SAY: I will: I can: I must: because I am WORTH it: I would dearly love you to have just one or two special people in your life called FRIEND: your own age and gender: A friend is a jewel to have: One whom you can share your whole self with who will listen to you: share with you: understan you: be gentle and kind to you: will stand by you no matter: This friend or friends will help you talk to a kind teacher or counsellor at your school or college: Becaue your mother and father are so immature in loving and cherishing you you must live with that (not Easy) for anotehr few years: Then you will be free to be true to yourself and your dreams: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: yes, You'll do fine in your academics ability: so try to be part of a team: playing sports or doing Gymnastic's and taking part in cultural activities with your friends: Darlene has given you re-assuring words in her comment to you: Take them to heart they sure are up-lifting and affirming of you: Build up your Self Esteem: Say nice and constructive affrimations of yourself to the me looking out at you from the mirror: Your parents are being cruel and abusive in they way they treat you: Your mother is like a little girl slapping you and pulling your hair etc: She needs to grow up: Your Father is totally unfair in wanting you to achieve as he did being a scientist: They both need to acknowledge the greatness in you with your love for music: Stay safe: be safe: REMEMBER Always believe in yourself: Hug and cuddle Darlene's loving heart feeling words into you; then you'll make sense that she and all who make a comment on your story want what is the very best for you: Beautiful and wonderful special YOU

Jan 31, 2011
asian parents???
by: nanako

im guessing you grew up in an asian family, a japanese old to. I study japanesse cultrue before.

abt the buddhist thing, im buddhist, n if you actually look into it its not bad, its pretti simple. trust me my mother goes extreme, but i got my own way of lookign at things.

dont kill urself, esp since u got a talent, if you become famous i would like to hear it, but im telling you, i been there done that, i attempted to kill myself, n i regert it cuz i lose the person i love n now im pregant at 21, with no father. i cant tell if everythign gonna be ok some people say that growing up without a father is bad, but to me im happy, as long as my kid is happy. I wished that i had a talent, but i realize it never easy in life.

sorry if this kinda dont make sense, im alittle sleepy, but hwt im trying to say is, aim for a goal and work toward it, be a famous musician by than mayb ur parent will see how wrong they look at u, i believe in u, i dnt know u, but i will hope 2 hear frm you through the art of music, u knw wht a good song, "question" by system in a down..

i took japanese, its hard n i fail but i knw simple words, their fun 2 learn n if u like rock or metal u wud love their music, japanese rock, dir en grey. i think that band will know how u feel. good luck, u got alotta stuff to live for i knw it.

it also funny, the word below me say choice... i think it means sumthing. itsumo <3

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