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Oct 14, 2010
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I do hope you are now in a safe place. Your mother is twisted in her thinking. To blame you for your sister's death is to suggest some form of mental illness. If you are still a minor and still in this horrific environment, please contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. You don't deserve to be mistreated. You are beautiful and smart and worthy of dignity and respect. Do NOT take the word of someone who is so obviously sick. She needs help, but mostly, it's YOU who needs help. Call one of the numbers. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 15, 2010
Your mom is out of control
by: Anonymous

Your mom is wrong. You are not ugly; you are beautiful. You are not fat; you are not stupid; you are smart and articulate. Oh, and you are not to blame for your late sister's death; your mom is truly twisted and confused in her own way of thinking and she needs help...but you need help too, so the sooner you tell someone about it, the better.

Oct 15, 2010
undisclosed 68
by: Anonymous

Hallo 68, Please do not short change yourself by thinking that what happened to you was any less severe to others on this site. Everybody hurts from abuse whether it be physical, emotional, Spiritual and sexual. What your mother did to you is sinful she needs help she has something very very wrong with her. You do not mention how or why your sister died but under no circumstances must you blame yourself. You did not kill your sister or you would be sitting in a prison now. It sounds like to me that your mother is a very unhappy person and is using you as her whipping board. I would encourage you to look into some counselling for yourself if you are still in school then speak with a councessor there or your teacher, or even another adult that you feel you can trust. Plese remenber none of what happened is your fault do not waste your precious life feeling guilty for your mothers sins.
I wish you all the luck in the world, good health and better times to come:)

Oct 17, 2010
Abuse is Abuse: Don't let anyone lessen that fact and truth
by: maurice

Oh 68: Abuses you were: How you level it off in your mind makes no difference: But it is the level you accept it: You still need help and love to make a real sense of what your cruel mother said and did to you: I was not to blame: It was not my fault: I could not help my sister from dying: Your mother was very unfair to you making it out as if it was: Darlene's words to you are from her heart: Pay special attention to her affirming words: Take them to your heart: You'll be a winner: Live your life to the full: Always believe in yourself: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: This means you may have to change your daily/weekly routine: Getting off your bottom and getting out there with your own age and gender taking part in sporting and cultural activities: Especially Team Sports: You are gifted: you are tallented: You are highly intelligent: Look in the Mirror and acknowledge that about yourself: May your might will be:
I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Because I am WORTH it: be gentle and kind on yourself and your body: think positive: be positive: act positive in all you do and say about your woderful and beautiful self: Now read Darlene's words to you and act on them:

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