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Oct 09, 2010
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You need help dealing with this. And trust me when I say that you are likely NOT his only victim. He is sick and twisted. To have "groomed" you the way he did was cruel, calculated and demented. Please consider seeking out some form of counseling, otherwise this will continue to haunt you. As for your family, it is anything but perfect. If you really don't believe you can tell your parents, talk to another trusted adult; a school counselor for example. Just don't keep it to yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 10, 2010
good first step
by: michelle5

You really need to go talk to someone about what you have been through or it will eat you up inside. You,ve already made the first step by amitting to your self this has happened to you now you need to tell someone, belive me it does help. I,m not saying you will ever forget but as life goes on it will get easia it will feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders and you will learn to love your self for who you are now and you will relise that none of what happened was your fault, you did nothing wrong you were just a child and the blame is with your sicko brother who serously needs help. Take care.

Oct 10, 2010
Well done wonderuland brave you: Be brave: Be strong: Have courage
by: maurice

I will: I can I must because I am WORTH it: An older brother who by his grooming and actions has put a terrible fear into you: Not of your doing: Not your fault: he abused and used your chldhood innocence: He knew exactly what he wanted: what he did at 16 ears of age to his evr beautiful 10 year old sister: You are one very special and brave young woman at 17: Highly intelligent: Highly loving and caring of some one very SPECIAL: You will ponder and read Darlene's total woman's heart sharing to you personally: She know you will underdstand the encourageing get help for yourself words with empathy: with love: with re-assuring: He made you have a guilt trip by his groomimg of you: I don't want to tell my parents out of total fear of breaking up my family: Or what he will do when my parents are made aware of his cruel, nastiness, and uncaring about the effects it is all having on me now: Hi, you'll be fine: You'll read Darlene's words to you: I am certain all young teens have a special friend or two that they open thier heart to. I hope you have if not have a friend your age and gender or a slightly older woman Auntie or as Darlene has given you people whom you can trust: A Teacher: A school counsellor: Sharing what you did with Darlene and her visiitors who empatise with you in the predicament your horrid brother put you through: You would not like to know or hear about another innocent 10 year old boy/girl being abused by him like all he did to you: Stop him hurting other children: Now you start living your life as every other 17 year old should and does: Live it to the full: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: This will mean you joining with other girls/young women your own age taking part in team sports and cultural activities: When you do you will find a whole new natural world opening out for you: You'll make real friends for life: You'll have aqauaintamces who will cheer you up each time you say Hi to them: Now what you have shared with darlene you need to in total trust and confidence in yourself Talk to someone: A counsellor you'll know the differnece it will make in your lif in a short time: Don't be afraid: you have enough safe protection around you in numbers and maybe even in your family: Darlene has given you a new beginning: Grab it: Act on her encouraging word to you:

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