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Jul 19, 2010
M.E:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I'm delighted that you were rescued from that sickening environment and that you found love and happiness in another home. I hope you are able to get counseling for what happened to you.

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Jul 19, 2010
sickened
by: Anonymous

Your parents are MONSTERS!! I am sickened to hear that you had to endure such a disgusting upbringing. You are a gift from God not a sex toy. I hope and pray that you will continue to be blessed in your life. You deserve nothing less than the best. Don't shut out the idea of having your own children. I was abused and have not abused my child. You are so strong to have made it thru. Bless your heart!!

Jul 21, 2010
Thats just F***ing Wrong!!!!!!!!
by: Dan1

Please excuse my title. But your parents are SICKLY DISTURBED!!!!!!!! I have seen the movie "Precious" at my sisters house. That's a good movie. Very strong too. Do not feel bad or even think its your fault for thinking that what your parents were doing to you was normal. Like you said, they made you their tool and that is very sick of them. You were raised with them doing that to you your whole childhood and half of your teen life by your parents. Any child would think its right if their parents do. Your body betrayed you and you began to like it more as you grew, just like it happens to almost everyone that gets sexually abused. Your uncle is a hero and a good man. I'm so glad that my fellow men are not all "corrupt". He exploded that way with good reason. I would of reacted the same way but i Pray that I don't ever go through that same anger. I hope you are doing well and staying somewhere safer away from your parents. They do not deserve to have you as a daughter.
Always by yourside
Dan1

Jul 23, 2010
A hero for an uncle
by: Anonymous

What your parents did to you was very disgusting and I really hope that they will get incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you. Oh, and I am glad that your uncle is with you now because he is so sweet for doing that!

Oct 11, 2010
Great uncle...... Bad parents :(
by: Anonymous

Oh my gosh your parents are SICK EVIL TWISTED MONSTERS!!!!!! Girl, you've got my sympathy! I was disgusted when I read this and started cheering when your uncle saved you (my mom was givin me some weird looks).
I'm glad you've got a good home and a good life now. You've probably heard this a bajilion times and I can't _possibly_ imagine what that was like, but you need to try letting go. The abused abuse thing isn't real. It's really not. If you don't want to abuse, then you won't! HAGLG (Have A Good Life Girl) :)

Nov 14, 2010
wow, what monsters to do this to you....
by: Anonymous

I really don't know where to start. I am so glad you are safe and out of that environment. I am glad your uncle was a decent man and got you help and supported you.

I have to wonder how your parents hid these activities from everyone - I read the part about home schooling but as your uncle found out what was happening, I am surprised that none of your friends or relatives realized something was wrong earlier.

I mean you would have been displaying advanced sexual knowledge and behaviours plus all these activities must have left physical traces, and yet no doctors, friends, friends parents, or relatives realized.

I just find it incredibly shocking that abuse this severe could have gone on for so long and I would like to know how it's possible.

With regards to birth control, you can get an injection, I think it is called depvo, every three months that will prevent pregnancy. It is reversible if you choose to have children later.

Be well.

My two cents.

Nov 15, 2010
Update-*-The Story Precious was about me
by: Anonymous

I checked in and read all your comments and well wishes. I try and think back to why didnt the neighbors or family notice and I just cant remember. I was homeschooled and was only required to take a test once a year to show I had profiency to pass into the next grade. Well my sperm donor was killed in prison by an "accident" and my egg donor is in prison. I dont have contact with her. Im in school finishing up I want to be a counselor. My Uncle is a hero, is my savior, Him and his wife opened up there home and gave me hope and love and understanding. So If you read my story tell someone,anyone, everyone,you abuser already hurt you it wont get worse only better. Im still frighten to have children though.

Nov 17, 2010
thanx reply
by: My Two Cents

Thank you for your reply. I am the one who asked how nobody noticed this. I still find it difficult to believe that your sperm and egg donors were able to do stuff this depraved to you.

You have brought to light the fact that children who are homeschooled may require check-ins from child welfare to ensure their safety. I hope child welfare personnel are aware of that need.

With regards to pregnancy, you mention being afraid of having children because of the MYTH that those who were abused, abuse. It is a valid concern, "this is how I was raised so..." But having lived through it, I think you know better than most where the line is.

However having children is an individual and personal decision. I hope you don't slam the door shut on motherhood because of that MYTH.

Again, I am glad you are safe and I am happy that the counselling ranks will soon swell with a new counsellor.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

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