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Jun 15, 2010
Keeping the secret is NOT the answer...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You are not doing you or your siblings any favours by not telling. Your mother needs help, and the only way for that to happen is if she's made to face what she is doing to you and your siblings. I urge you to contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you are still dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jun 16, 2010
She know's full well what she did to you
by: maurice

Undisclosed 52 you have found Darlene's website for a reason: Why: I believe you want to tell someone about your horrific treatment and burning abuse by your MOTHER: Don't be afraid, have courage, you are a big girl now, deep down you truly love your mother: But also deep down you know no mother would burn their own flesh and blood like your Mother has: An iron, now you know she meant to make you feel pain on your shoulder: She knew what she was doing baring your shoulder and putting that hot Iron on you: Then catchin your arm and heating a spoon and pressing it into your arm: SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING: Read Darlene's comment, she knows you need to tell on your mother to stop her doing the same to your siblings who are younger than you: Your mother is no Idiot, no fool, you would be helping yourself as well as her if you told on her: You are effected by what she did to you: Can you see her being effected by what she did to you: NO she is getting on with her life having men and enjoying herself: SHE needs loads of professional help just as you do to put what she did in perspective for yourself: Speak with a therapist in confidence: A true and trusted friend who will encourage you and stand by when you tell someone: As yourself, Do I want to live with the effects of her abuse on me all my life? Do I want her to burn another innocent's shoulder/arm: I am sure your answer will be No, No, Always believe in yourself: Live well: Laugh alot: LOVE much beginning with yourself: Oh yes, you begin to be in charge of your own destiny and life: Look in that mirror and build up your own Self Worth: Your own Self Esteem: begin by taking Darlene's comment to heart and acting on it: Then Think Positive: Act Positive: Be Positive in all you say and do about yourself: Hi get nice soothing lotions and creams and be gentle and kind to that wonderful and beautiful body of yours: Soothe away some of the effects those scars are having on your thinking and life right NOW; Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes get out there and mix with your friends/class/college mates or like-minded people taking part in sporting and cultural activities: You are gifted: You are tallented: You sure are intelligent as you wrote your very truth filled feeling with honesty in telling your abuse story to Darlene and her visitors who empatise with you: Don't let the nasty scars on your person or indeed the effects of them hold you back from having a healthy mind in a healthy body: Are these scars preventing you from taking part in Physical Eduactaion at college or in team sports: You need help if that is the case: Remember Darlene has proved there is life after having being abused as a child: She is the victim of abuse who is the winner in victory over abuse: Get my message of love and empathy for you:

Jun 16, 2010
advice
by: Anonymous

Please dont keep quiet about such brutality. Nobody has a right to treat you like that.Please talk to the social workers about your predicament' they must help you and your siblings live a decent life.

Jun 16, 2010
same
by: nb

i no exactly what you mean about not wanting to get split up from your siblings. i stayed in a very abusive place so i could be with my brothers and sister to. my brothers are gone now and i stick around to take care of my little sister and futer baby bro or sis. its a complicated situation but if i coud find a way to get them to safety i woud and you shoud to. call that number and see if they can take you all together. your mom wont hurt just you for long. if she starts on them you'l regret evry second that you didnt help them get away. its a hard desision to let them go if you cant all go to the same home but if you have to its still better then them getting hurt or seeing you hurt. think about whats best for them. i hope you all can get out and be together safely. ill pray for you.

Jun 17, 2010
don't keep quiet
by: Anonymous

dont keep it inside, you need to be kept in a better place, yes, you love your siblings but it's much better for you to tell someone, and not keep it inside

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