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May 13, 2010
You have EVERY right to be upset...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your mother enabled severe abuse. That makes her every bit as responsible as your father, therefore, it does not surprise me that she would react the way she does. She herself is an abuser; of course she would either deny or minimize what happened. That is typical behaviour of child abusers, which is why I never advocate for confrontations. They almost always end up with the victim feeling revictimized. What you must now do is focus on your own healing and recovery; and that may mean distancing yourself from your parents for a time. I strongly recommend some form of counselling in order to help you deal with both the trauma and the residual of coming from such horrendous abuse. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 14, 2010
The sooner, the better...Darlene is right!
by: Anonymous

What that sorry excuse of a man did to you and your sister is really pathetic and ungrateful because your parents are really twisted, sick, sadistic and cruel in their own ways of thinking...not to mention control freaks. They didn't deserve to have such two beautiful, wonderful daughters like you and your sister...but most of all, you guys certainly didn't deserve to have such uncaring, unloving, sick, cruel, twisted, sadistic, ruthless parents. Oh, and even making jokes about how your "father" beat you guys really shows me how uneducated and ignorant he really is. As for your mother, I am really just as disgusted by her reaction towards him beating up on you guys; in fact, I really hate women who choose men over their own children because all children should always come first. You guys were the children; they were the adults. They had all the power and they only misused it, so the sooner you tell someone, the better. Darlene is right! Please tell someone you really trust.

May 14, 2010
Abuse, Abuse, uncontrolled sadism on the innocent
by: maurice

Undisclosed wonderful and beautiful person: I guess your Mother did not understand your natural re-action to shave your legs as part of you getting to know yourself and your body: As a woman and certainly as your mother to threaten you with your Father Beating was abuse in itself: Your poor body taking a beating from his belt and a cowhide whip and hands from the hands od a big man, adult was the work of a brute, sadistic and animalistic of a control freak: Thankfully Darlene does not allow me to use what I would really like to refer to as: You sure did not deserve such a bruising on your beautiful body: You were so innocent and vunerable in that house: Your Parents were out and out abusers of you and you sister: Darlene is a woman with a heart ever so loving of you in the telling of your honest and true abuse story: You were very brave, well done for searching for her safe haven site: She is the best, will you please take the advice she gives in her comment to you: It is a new beginning for you, Always believe in yourself: You deserve the best beautiful and wonderful person: Build up your self confidence, self worth, self esteem, You are a highly intelligent young person: stay in education: Have a healthy miond in a healthy body surrlound yourself with honest trusting caring like-minded people making one or two of them your close friends: There is safety in numbers: You gane great courage from being part of such a togetherness: We, with Darlene love and empatise with you in the horrendous physical abuse on you by that Freak of a Man: He does not deserve the name of Father: Your will do what is best for you and your sister: Don't be afraid anymore Get those two people out of your life while you get on with living ypour life to the full: Darlene has given you a loving stepping stone to begin from in her comment to you: Act on it where possible:

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