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May 06, 2010
TELL...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You need to tell someone what happened to you. Tell your father. And if you can't tell him, then tell a counsellor at school, or a trusted teacher, or an adult who can help you. Don't keep this secret. Consider contacting one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 06, 2010
TELL, TELL,and tell some more.
by: Linda

Tell your father why you won't talk to your grandpa. Chances are you are not the only child he has molested. He took something away from you that you won't ever get back and he should have to answer for his perverted actions. Telling on him might save another little child from being raped by him. Be brave and do the right thing. I wish the best for you and I say these things to you because I have been in your shoes. I was molested by my uncle and didn't tell, and I regret it so much. Because later on he molested my little sister. It is too late for me, but you can do it and live with your self....I can't....LOL.

May 07, 2010
I'm Precious, I'm Special, I need to be loved and cherished
by: maurice

Oh Precious, Precious Child of God, Of the Universe you deserve to be loved and cherished: It is your right: That GrandPa ruined your life, he took away your innocence and your virginity: He used you and abused your vunerability at an age when you could do nothing to stop him. Great you found Darlene's site, your stepping stone to do something about that bad, bad man, Linda in her comment spoke her heart out to you saying you probably are not the only one he hase molested or sexually abused: Pretty Please tell someone on HIM: I am sure you Father is a reasonable thinking man, he would understand if you took the courage to tell him what That horrible man did to you and why you avoid him: Darlene's comment is the one to heed because she has given you her heart felt words of love and encouragement to tell someone: Don't let it ruin your life, there is life to be lived after abuse: Very sadly you have to live with the awful pain and fact that your virginity was stolen from you by that abuser of a Grandpa. You will get your life back in shape, You be the winner over that Bad Man: Do talk to a counsellor who will assist you to love the beautiful and precious you: Think Positive, Act positive, Be positive in all you say and do for yourself in your life: Stay in Education: Stay safe: Be safe don't allow another to abuse you ever again: Love and respect your beautiful body; make it beautiful by treating it gently and soothing it with lotions and creams: It is hard to see your body as beautiful after someone abusing it: It is still your body beautiful so be kind and loving of yourself and it: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. Oh yes this will help you no end: Get out and aboutr with your friends, your school/college mates and like-minded peers being active and alive taking part in sporting and cultural activities: Share your giftedness and tallents with others: Always believe in yourself: I CAN: I WILL: I MUST: Because I am worth it. Tell someone on that bad, bad man don't let him be free to abuse another innocent child: Love the beauty and most natural part of you that he abused: Just be loving of yourself: cuddle and hug yourself in front of the mirror: Era go on there is no one looking, feel good>

Apr 22, 2012
Some concerns
by: BMW Princess

I'm sorry that happened to you
I have some concerns.For one that you feel that he took your virginity. IMO Youe're a virgin until YOU decide you're not. And you certianly don't have to talk to your grandpa.

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