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Apr 08, 2010
He very likely WAS abused himself...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I understand where you're coming from with your forgiveness of this man; however, molesters don't usually stop until they are made to stop. Sending him to another village may have stopped the abuse from happening to you, but it wouldn't have stopped him from abusing others. The system did not deal with the situation appropriately.

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Apr 14, 2010
The secret world of abuse when on finds it hard to tell
by: maurice

undisclosed you are one very special human being of the male species: Abused by your the servant your Parent's employed was wrong: How he had the freedom to bring you in that jeep where he could molest you without your parents asking you where you went and what you did. He was wrong, He was innocent and learning about his own body and his sexuality but knew exactly what he did to you. I am not so sure those incidents alone can be used to say you are a homosexual because of them. I am certain you are an intelligent Man. Had the benefit of your Parents guidance in that whole area of your Parents guidance once you related to your mother what he had done to you. Once she protected you from him you then had the opportunity to learn about your own sexuality. He was sadly a molester of children, more than likely he has not learned about his sickness yet. Darlene has certainly given you affirming words to make you think about. Speaking with a counsellor would be of great help to you. The effects of what happened to you are stiull with you irrespective of your sexuality: You are very much aware now that he did you an injustice, broke the trust your parents put in him. Be at peace with the complete person you are NOW in your own right. You'll be fine, get on with living your life to the full. Live well: Laugh alot: Love much: be true to yourself. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. Get out there being active and alive in sporting and cultural activities with your peers and friends. Always believe in yourself. I hope and Pray that your molester gets the opportnity to be helped so he will not do hram to his own or other children. Sadly it is still so difficult for children to relate to their parents when something they are not happy with is happening them. Parents please help your children to trust you and talk to you naturally about everything that is happening them in their lives. Be interested.

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