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Jul 01, 2009
Not uncommon to still be struggling even 44 years later...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I understand the struggle you're going through today. Just remember that you were NOT complicit in this. You were not to blame. You were a vulnerable little boy, and this man "groomed" you. He set you up for molestation. And the fact that you were so shy and in such need of attention made you that much more vulnerable; and he KNEW that and he used the puppy to lure you in. It wasn't your fault. It will never be your fault. Always remember that. And when you have difficulty convincing yourself of that or when you struggle with the memories of what happened, consider seeking out some form of counselling. You didn't deserve to be molested. You DO deserve help for the fact that you were.

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Jul 01, 2009
It was not my fault, I must not think that, I must not blame myself.
by: maurice

All these years later very human being Male behind Undisclosd 20. Please heed the very wonderful words of Darlene. Very truthfully spoken to you. My reason for re-itterating them to you. It was not my Fault, I was not to blame, These 2 men were purely child predators and treated you very wrongly. Forcing you to do things that you had no control over because of your vunerable and innocent tender years of nine years. The awfulness of the act that they forced you into is so depicable to call anything else but animalistic. Any such forced acts on children leaves a huge memory because it was so awful. You know now that yourself, Talking your real feelings out to a professional person will put it in perspective for you 44 years later. Don't let it ruin your life, Don't be ashamed talking with your chosen friends whom you trust. Yes even with your mother if she still is alive, she will be upset but at least both of you will value and respect each other as Mother and Child. I am sure she will understand the predicament that man put on you if you told on him. Total abuse of you by putting fear into you. Hi you have been very brave writing all you could remember about those visits to this man. You sure are intelligent and very much aware of what hurt they caused you then and now all those years later. Keep saying It was never my fault that this happened to me. See yourself as one very special, beautiful male human being. Acknowledge your own body now. because you did not abuse your body, those sick adult men did. So love your own body now. I assure you it will benefit you with real positive feelings about yourself.

Dec 14, 2009
IF this ever happen to my baby bro knock on wood never to happen
by: anna

I hate nothing more den a child predotr. Im sorry that happen to you, thats y everyday i told my brother if anyone try to touch him, or even talk to him, scream, and come tell me. I;m happy that at least you get to live through it.

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