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Aug 05, 2013
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Children who are "sexually intrusive", have in some way been exposed to sexual situations. It's always possible a child was exposed completely innocently, but in the vast majority of cases, the child was sexually abused in some way. They typically reenact the sexual situations they were exposed to. The sexual abuse could have been physically done to them, or they were purposely exposed (forced to watch an act in person or through pornography). Your memories are vague, which is not at all unusual. Whether or not you were physically sexually abused, I cannot say. But what you described for a first-grader is not within the realm of their knowledge base unless someone has brought it to them in some way. And it sounds as though you may be feeling guilt and shame for some of the acts you personally did. Just remember that you were a child. Don't hold your child self responsible. Someone in your life exposed you to inappropriate sexualization. It's what you do in your life NOW that really matters. We've all done things we are not particularly proud of...it's what we do with our lives in the Present that speaks to who we are as human beings. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I send you love, light and healing energy.

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Aug 06, 2013
Your not alone
by: Anonymous

I too have a similar past. From what I can remember I started out as a normally curious little boy, but became extremely interested in this sort of thing. I too would make a certain friend of mine do things to me after I did them to him, and I've struggled with it my whole life even to this day and I'm 21 years old. As far as your memories I'd say there may be something there because I don't know why you'd be having them if there wasn't a trigger for them. Then again, I'm not a psychologist so I could be wrong. God bless my friend and stay strong

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