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Feb 01, 2009
I recommend therapy...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You said, "I enjoyed the sex with my aunt because they always ended with lots of hugs and gentle stroking. I guess anyone who enjoys that gets what they deserve." DESERVE TO BE SEXUALLY ASSAULTED! That's absurd! The fact is, sexual stimulation feels good, but that doesn't change the fact that you were assaulted. You were the child; they were the adults. You can't possibly put mature values of what you did or did not do as a child; a sexually abused child at that. I suggest you read and re-read the information pages about sexual abuse, sexual offenders and victims of sexual abuse (see the navigation bar on the left for the multitude of information pages) on this site. There is a dynamic present between a child and his/her abuser that goes way beyond anything I can possibly write about here.

The fact that you are now in your 30s, married AND continue to have a relationship with a violent sex offender of a father, who by your own admission continues to sexually assault, is not just disturbing; it's a clear indication of something seriously wrong with your thought processes. You need help. And while I thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, for goodness sake, seek out some form of therapy in order to deal with this. That's the best advice I can offer.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Feb 01, 2009
Hey, even children are people, too!
by: Francine

You don't deserve to be sexually assaulted; you don't deserve to be beat! Even children are people, whether they grow up or not. Trust me. I said this because no one, let alone a child, deserves to be mistreated. I'm sorry about your past. Have you tried counselling yet?

Feb 01, 2009
Sorry For You!
by: Linda sue Tidwell

Your father is a very sick man and needs to be put away! I don't understand why you care for his well being, when he so obviously didn't care about yours. From your story it appears you have some deep emotional issues brought on by your father and aunt. Please seek some kind of psyciatric help. You are depressed and sad because in your heart you know it is wrong to have sex with your father. Your husband sounds like a smart man for having you file charges against that child molester. Get that man out of your life once and for all, so you can find happiness in a normal relationship with someone who really loves you, your husband. I say these things because I have been in your shoes and I know the hurt and humiliation of being sexually abused by a relative. I had to force myself to go for counceling and I'm glad I did......Good luck to you, God Bless you.

Feb 11, 2009
you didnt do anything
by: jennifer

you didnt do anything and you didnt diserve what they done to you your life can get better it takes a little time to do that but it will get better.

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