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Nov 29, 2009
Your body had a biological response...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Milton, it is perfectly natural for a young man to have an erection and orgasm during a sexual assault, or when he is anxious, afraid or nervous. This can even happen with women. What happens is that the body betrays you. Sexual stimulation can feel good even when done against your will, even when done by someone you don't want to touch you. Your molester knew that and he took advantage of your vulnerabilities. Your body had a biological response, Milton. You'll drive yourself crazy putting more into it than that. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 29, 2009
Thank You
by: Milton D

Thanks Darlene I know. It is not so bad now,but every so often it just raises it's ugly head. I have children and grandchildren now and have gay friends both male and female as well as straight. For the most part i have moved on. Thanks again for letting me share. Milton D

Dec 11, 2009
Honesty and truth will set you free. Always believe in yourself
by: maurice

Milton D you are the most honest and truthful guy and full credit to you for sharing what happened you on that eventful evening not of your making. I guess you were part of a friendship bunch who trusted this Carolyne counsellor at the center who was very naughty to be dealing as well as holding down a responsible position at the center for young people like yourself. He certainly took advantage of you in the vunerable state you ended up in after scoring. He is the culprit, not you, don't blame yourself, Accept it as a growing up experience, a mistake but nothing to blame yourself about. let it go now. get on with living your life to the full. You know yourself, you are a responsible thinking man now. Treat that real experince as a good normal/natutural learning experience in your tender years of adolecence. Your honesty is empowering for you. The truth will set you free of it. So respect your own dignity, love your wonderful and beautiful self NOW. Get on with your life. Thinking positive, acting positive and being positive each day you jump out of bed. never dwell on the ghost of that experience. let it go and fade into oblivian as you live your life to the full. Your human and while He took advantage of you and your drugged haze of mind you learned something very natural about your sexuality even at the age you were. Milton D Darlene's commment is ever so loving and helpful. you acknowledged her for what she wrote. Now get on with your life. I can, I will, I must because I'M SPECIAL and I love me. Value your wonderful and beautiful self. Look in the mirror and admire yourself the hulk of the man you are now. Era go on, you'll feel all the better for it.

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