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Dec 20, 2009
Milli:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

No one who visits this site can tell you what to do. You have to decide for yourself. What I will say is that sometimes distance is necessary for healing to begin. But that has to be your choice and your choice alone, weighed carefully between the repercussions of getting together with them vs not getting together with them. It's YOUR sanity that's most important. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Dec 22, 2009
be strong sweet :)
by: nikki

Be strong sweet and you do what you think is best.....It took me 5yrs of living out of home to take my step dad to court for molesting me, And telling my mother that i didn't want to see her anymore cause of her abuse towards me.

Now i am a mother of two, i have a beautiful house lots of clothes, accessories all the things that i never had growing up. But most of all i have lots of love from the beautiful family that me and my partner created.....

Although sometimes i wished i had a mother and that will never go away. But in my heart i know she was not a mother to me, and never would have been... I wish you the best and a happy Christmas :):):):)

Dec 23, 2009
It is my choice and my choice alone when I am ready the process of forgiveness
by: maurice

Milli1 it is my wish and prayer that no child should ever be in your position after all the years wondering what is or is not the right thing to do. Darlene as always has put thoughts in front of you to ponder on. She truly is a professional with a womans heart. She must have found herself in a position similiar to yours when she had to make the right choice of what to do to begin the forgiveness between her and her parents who abused he. It is such a pity especially at this time of the year Christmas that you with many others have to make that choice. It ain't an easy one make no mistake about that, make sure it will not upset your christmas worrying about it. Only when you really feel you are ready then do it. Say a wee prayer for guidance. You love and be gentle with yourself this Christmas. You be number one to enjoy, relax have a celebrating time with those who love and respect you NOW. Say a prayer for your Mother and Father that they may seek forgiveness from you for what they did to you. You'll do the right thing when you are ready to. I'll include you in my Prayers that all will work out well for you. Always Beieve in yourself only because you truly are worth it. I'M SPECIAL, I AM GOING TO LOVE ME THIS CHRISTMAS. Look in the Mirror, be gentle and kind to the wonderful and beautiful me looking out at you. caress, massage, soothe love into your body with lotions and creams. era go it will make you feel good.

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