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Jun 19, 2010
MiKayla:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story and your very important message with my visitors and me. You stated "it's too late for me to get justice"...you didn't say how old you are, but if your assaulter is still alive, as far as I know, the statute of limitations in the state of South Carolina for sexual abuse is 6 years after your 21st birthday. Whether or not you can seek justice from the courts, I strongly recommend you seek out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with the ramifications of the abuse at the hands of your father, and the abandonment and betrayal by your mother. You deserve that kind of help.

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Jun 19, 2010
Mom's in Denial
by: MeMe Cathy

MiKayla, I CRY for you, that your Mother knew you were being abused. She went past Denial, straight to Disgusting? I wonder if I can help you in any way? I'm a MeMe (grama), I'm working toward my Bachelor's Degree, finally,; I'm a smart lady! My daughter is 29, her child is 4; she is allowing her new boyfriend to do whatever he wants because SHE can't keep a boyfriend. My daughter was never abused, she just has a nasty attitude toward me, as her Mom. My granddaughter told me what the new boyfriend is doing to her (sex-play), but Child Protective Services said they don't see a problem! I AM LIVID & Heartbroke too! and I will not stop, I haven't stopped trying to get my tiny angel away from that situation! Did you tell anyone of the abuse when it was happening? Please stay in contact and no, it's not too late to have your Father arrested. Be ok. MeMe

Jun 20, 2010
Don't let them feel they were right: You were abused:
by: maurice

MeMe certainly is a genuine and true mother: Her Grand Daughter (her angel) cannot and should not be allowed to grow up almost exactly as your beautiful and good self MiKayla D: You are a bright intelligent 16 year old: you are still hurting and paining from what that beast of a Man did to you: To know your mother knew what he was doing to you and just got on with her life: MiKayla you do not deserve to be suffering: Please don't be afraid: Be brave: take courage into your own hands and tell on them: Your dignity as a child was horrifically abused by this animal of a man He sure does not deserve the name (Father) Thanks to Darlene in safeguarding her visitors I can't totally express my true feeling and what I would do to both of them: : MiKayla D I hope Darlene is right and that the laws in South Carolina are there still to protect children: So please check out with your special and trusted friend of which I am sure you have: : I believe God gives each of us that natural gift of friend from our earliest years at school: Darlene sure knows her stuff so check out her thinking of the laws governing child abuse in your State: Hi, stay in education< you are articulate and intelligent that is your gift: Hi, you are also ever so young: to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Turn your pain of abuse into power: safeguard other little girls in your state by telling on this Animal of a Man: you don't owe him or your mother anything for the way they ruined you innocence and took away your childhood years from you: It is not right that a child should suffer: Always believe in yourself: build up your self esteem: Love yourself: be safe, stay safe: one good way to have natural friends of both sexes is to be active and alive in team sports: and cultural activities with your own age group: Hi, playing a team sport will help you show off your giftedness and your tallents: Equally the freedom you'll feel will empower you: Let go of the horrible feelings of what that Beast did to you: Darlene's comment is from her heart to you, she has this natural intuition of each one's pain that visiit her site: she writes a personal comment to each one: She knows the pain of abuse: But she also knows there is life after abuse: She's turned her pain into power: She's a winner in victory over her absusers: Take special note of her comment to you: Act on them: Have a talk with a counsellor: you will get a whole new way of how you're feeling and your abuse will be put in perspective in your life for you: live well: laugh alot: love much Mikayla D

Jun 21, 2010
Maurice, I Commend You!
by: MeMe Cathy

Maurice, I cried when I read your comment to OUR Mikayla D. We need to help her; I pray she doesn't let her Father or her Mother off the hook; they ruined her life. I'm hoping to hear from more children, who are also adults-now, that had their own Mothers in Denial, so that I can attempt to get my own daughter, age 29, to read these stories and REALIZE that she silenced her own baby...my now-4 year old Angel granddaughter! She says I'm 'crazy' and made it all up; oh dear! By New York State Law, I should be in jail myself, as it is a crime here NOT to immediately report any type of child abuse to authorities. I chose to approach my daughter with her then-3 and 1/2 year old's allegations; she quickly figured out how to ditch me and merely protect a NEW boyfriend. Nearly 8 months later, we are in Family Court so I can at least get Visitation; very stressing. Please PRAY for my ANGEL! MeMe Cathy

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