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May 07, 2013
Michael:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

What happened to you at the hands of this sick and twisted rapist was not only terrible and criminal, it was soul-stripping. Add to that all the other abuses you were enduring, it's a wonder that you came through it all. You were set up by the adults in your life, set up for even more abuses. Sickos like LR look for vulnerable children and youth, and they take advantage of that youth and their vulnerabilities. You mentioned that LR did this to you 6 times over a six month period. Have you considered that you've re-lived these terrible episodes many many more times that they actually occurred...and did you know that the body doesn't know the difference between a memory of something that happened or the actual event in the moment! That means that your thoughts are keeping you trapped. I do understand how challenging it is to constantly see your abuser and know he will never have to pay legally for his crimes against you. But as long as you continue to be negatively affected by his presence, it's YOU who are in prison. Only you can choose to change your thoughts, Michael. Only you can choose to no longer allow what this sicko did to you continue to take your power. It's the right thing not to go after him, because then you'd have to live with yourself for YOUR criminal actions, and so would your family. But you can choose to re-frame what happened to you, re-frame it in a positive way, such as how you ensured your family never suffered the way you did. Don't give up one more day, one more second to this creep. He's not worth your time. YOU'RE the one worth the time. I send you love, light and healing energy, Michael. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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