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Aug 27, 2009
 You most certainly WERE abused...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your father was severely emotionally abusive, Marie, and your mother was an enabler of that abuse; you've paid dearly for that abuse. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I'll post Part 2 tomorrow. And just so you know, I've had to split Part 2 as it did not fit into my template. Part 3 will be posted day after tomorrow.

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Darlene Barriere
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Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir
Aug 29, 2009
 cruel Father condoned by your Mother
by: maurice

Oh Marie 1, my heart goes out to you and your brother especially around being left to sleep in your urine for days. Sadly you experienced no love from either of your parents. Only fear was instilled into you with all the threats of your Father and emotional abuse in syaing your friends only came for the swimming etc. Putting a Cork in your very beautiful and natural parts. It was only normal that wetting the bed came natural with living daily with s thought to have to live with at your very vunerable and innocent age. Marie 1 I have just read DARLENE'S loving words to you, their short but very powerful so please do your best to heed them to begin to LOVE yourself NOW. I cannot put an age on you now telling your story but I am sure you have made a friend or two who love and care for you simply because you are you. I am sure too you have related your abuse to them. Let them be your inner strength to talk to a Therapist or counsellor who will help you to begin healing from all you endured at the hands of your father in particular but a mother also who should have known better. You're a very thoughtful sensitive, gentle and ever so caring espoecially looking after your brother and maybe saving him from his fathers belt. Build on those wonderful qualities Marie 1. With Part's 2/3 to follow I read them and send you my caring and loving comments if I feel it is neccessary. Always believe in yourself. Hi if you can write very clearly, articualte with a very hig degree of intelligence in expressing the details of what you were cruelly and sadistically put through by your father. If you find it hard to talk to any one or are scared to name your father/mother for what they did to you just give your written details to someone who will believe you and help you. Just think about it.
Sep 02, 2009
 You truly are a thoughtful and caring woman/sister
by: maurice

They say ignorance is bliss to those who know no better Marie 1. Reading through parts 2/3 of your story your parents sure come across as being of low self esteem, uneducated, and totally ignorant to their responsibilities of your what rearing two beautiful children is all about. It is frightening that a Man of 28 and yourself are still under the thumb of those very abusive parents. Marie 1 from now on the most important person for you to believe in is yourself. Your father drove you to want to hit him and beat a bit of sense into him but it was all one big joke to both your parents. Distance yoursefl from them in order that you will not stoop as low as them in yourself. Get to know your own giftednes, build up your own self esteem from that. Talk to your brother about building up his own self worth and self esteem, at 28 he should be able to talk things through with his parents about the emotional abuse he has put him through all his life. Moving away from them maybe an option for him in order to build up his self worth/self esteem. Maybe both of you could talk to a Therapist and continue your living your lives to the full each day you wake from your pillows. Mareie 1 always Believe in yoursefl. with the encourageing words from darlne and comments from me and some of her other visitors know we care and love you both.
May 04, 2012
 my value and respect for Marie 1
by: Anonymous

I hope you are in a better place since I last left you a comment Marie 1

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