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Mar 11, 2010
Margarita:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I'm so sorry that you've had to suffer in the way that you have. You didn't deserve to be mistreated and molested. You didn't deserve to have a mother who didn't believe you when you were so brave to tell. You DO deserve dignity and respect. And that dignity and respect starts with YOU. Don't believe the lies you've received as messages over the years. Believe you ARE worthy because you ARE! I gather you are still in the USA. When you need someone to talk to about what you are dealing with, consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453). They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

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Mar 13, 2010
You are not alone!
by: Anonymous

Hello, I'd like to start by saying you are not alone. When you're young you don't know better than to tell someone. It is not right that they don't believe you! You need someone else to vent to! Nothing is your fault ever! Have people around you that are caring and will listen and vent to. Kepp the past far behind, and don't let it ruin your future, you are the only one who can be the stronger person and forgive and let go is the only way. Start a new life, and become who you really want, never let the past come to grips with the future! Much success!

Mar 13, 2010
There is REAL help and LOVE out there for YOU
by: maurice

Your story makes me angry, An only child growing up without a proper father and a MOTHER who did not love you when you were ever so brave as Darlene put to tell her what those beasts did to you in your innocence and vunerability. They took advantge og you Margarita. Believe every word Darlene wrote in her comment to you. She is a woman knows exactly the feelings you have about your body being molested by those abusers. Hi, you can be the winner still, You have done what you thought was the right thing to rid yourself of the mauling molesting hands over your beautiful body. scrubbed & scrubbed your body is clean, beautiful, your skin is gentle, sensitive, what still remains is the effects of what those horrible people did to you as a chld/teenager They abused your body at the most vunerable of stages of it's growth. Margarita, please get help, talk through all you wrote to someone you really trust. I am sure you have a school pal, friend that you are close to. I am certain it is another Teenager Girl who understands the girlie growth of one's bodies. Now get her to hold your hand to get help. You deserve the best, You are a brave and big girl NOW. You found a steeping stone to make new beginnings in your life. Darlene's site is a good place to begin from. Her woman's heart has written real ways for you to begin to really LOVE yourself. Regain your dignity and self respect. which are rightfully yours. In your innocence and vunerability your dignity was brutally taken from you by those beasts of a step-father and step cousins.IT WAS NOT MY FAULT; I AM NOT TO BLAME: I had a mother who did not protect me from these animals. Begin today Margarita regaining your self worth, self-esteem, dignity and self respect. I CAN: I WILL: I MUST: Because I am worth it and Darlene know best in what she has written to me for me to regain my confidence and self-respect. Hi, Margarita, instead of scrubbing the efects of what they did to you when you shower. Be gentle, be kind, to your beautiful body by eraising those memories with nice creams, body lotions. Massage and hug love back into your body making you feel good and bloosoming like a scented smelling flower. Look at the me in the mirror. go on, cuudle that me, hug that me in the privacy of your bathroom and your bedroom. You'll feel good margarita and it is not a silly thing for me or anyone to ask you to do. I love me I hope will be you praying mantra. Please ALLOW YOUR FRIEND (s) to hug and cuddle you it is the beginning for you to erase the horrible memories you have. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. be active be alive with your friends in sporting and cultural activitie. Always believe in yourself Margarita. Hi Darlene encouraged you to get professional help. Find a Therapist/counsellor to talk through your real feelings to.

Mar 14, 2010
to margarita
by: jm

daer magarita
i raely flet saorry for what happen to you i would be scaer as whell if it happen to me i also whant to say is that if you dont say anyting after being molested for so long they whont belive you but if you told them right away then they would have a feeling that they belive you so i hope if it happens again follow what i said just tell them right away plaes trust me and do your best

Mar 18, 2010
I'm going trough the same thing now!!!
by: Anonymous

Well margarita hope your doing much much better but i'm kind of in the same spot as you and now that i read it i'm going to have to do something for me thnxs!!!!! =)

Mar 26, 2010
Admiration
by: James

My names James but JJ for short. Ive been reading around and commenting on the breave people who tell us their stories. Im 15 and to tell you the truth im here because of a school project but after seeing all of your stories i felt i should tell my story to you. When i was six or mabie seven i dont really remember but i wanna tell you that i was sexually abused by someone i thought was my friend. He made me preform oral sex and im ashamed. Ive told my grandma, mom, some friends, my mom but not my dad (as this happened at his house, even though i think he knows). Im so proud of you for telling these things to others. You may not have the support of your mother but now you have the support of a fat dorky 15 year old kid in california. But as i say im proud of you i also want to tell you something dont be so sad, dont think of suicide, dont shut yourself out from others. We need to learn to find our own happiness. My happiness comes from my friends, family, and awesome girlfriend.

Your new admirer, James

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