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Jun 02, 2010
Lucille:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Talk to your parents. Tell them what you suspect, and tell them what you're feeling. Don't keep any of this inside. Talk to your school counsellor; s/he may be able to help you deal with this terrible tragedy. Consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about all this. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

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Jun 02, 2010
What can I do...? Great you shared your gut feelings
by: maurice

Oh Lucille, you had the courage, you were brave to search for Darlene's Safe Place Site to share your gut feelings: You'll truly never know the answer as to the WHY? your friend Shawn died through siicide: Nobody ever does which is the mystery: The their pain: I have know many a family whos children like Shawn said good bye sooner than they expected through suicide: They all live with a certain amount of guilt, if only, if only etc: Lucille, he was your friend, he had a friend in you: Only you and he knows all you shared in trust and confidence: A true friend: Live with all that was good about him: Live with all the little secrets ye shared in a positive constructive way: Don't doubt your own inner strength to carry on and live your life to the full knowing he will always be along side you from a distance: What you both shared cope with: What you thought was wrong and he did not share leave with God: You'll never know the real answers to what he did not share with you: Hi you have good parents trust them with your loss and your feelings: I am sure there were a bunch of you who were buddies/friends then lean on each other when you need a hug, a cuddle, to relieve the pain of his parting: Let go too Lucille: He would want you to get on with your life: Do your best and be happy: There is a rawness in you right now but time will put his going his separate ways in perspective for you: Both He and His Mom had their hidden reasons for dying through suicide: You are a loving, caring, understanding Teenager: You are intelligent: Please read Darlene's comment to you: There is great LOVE expressed in her words to you: I assure you if you take her way of coping, you'll be doing right for yourself and indeed for all you are so naturally concerned about: Lucille please try and have a healthy mind in a healthy body: By that I mean get out and about with your friends, class mates, peers taking part in sporting and cultural activities: With the company, team mates, and togetherness with others you will be able to keep your feelings in perspective: Always believe in yourself Lucille:

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