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Aug 06, 2010
Lola:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You need the help your mother has offered you. And you need to report that your father pointed a gun at you and threatened you and your mother with it. I urge you to contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you have dealt with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Aug 09, 2010
Lola! I hope you can see this
by: Mo

I was abused by several people too. I am 33, and I live in Argentina. I also have had dissociation, ptss, and all the bs. You know.

I am anxious to let you know how much I respect your strength, what you are going through, what you went through. And I understand that unique kind of generosity that only these types of experiences can make you know about.

I wish I could be there with you, if you want, I am here to be a shouder whenever ou like.

And I also want to tell you that I have found over the years, that these "dramas", or BS! that is what they truly are, just foolish people trying to humiliate others to upgrade their "value", it is not even about sex, even though it seems to be that way. I honnestly believe, it is ALL about "pride", they use whatever tools.

Do not let them get you in their game, in ther trapp: that is, you feeling fear, believing their lies, among them, that you are not valious. You are, otherwise, they wouldn┬┤t be trying SO HARD to make you believe otherwise.

READ. READ. READ. And find music that heals you.I particularly love Pearl Jam. I feel they know what they are talking about. If you believe, or not, there is always a wise and kind side to religons.

:) It will be all right for you as well.

Aug 12, 2010
There for you
by: Anonymous

Im so sorry for what happen to you first of all and they are right you should report it and take your mothers advice and if your ever upset we are all here for you. And its good to have told your friends in my optoin friends are better then any phycogist but i hope that you get better soon,and again well all here for you

Dec 07, 2010
stay strong
by: Maria

Hey Lola I?m sorry for what happened to you trust me when i tell u i feel your pain, I was molested by my aunts boyfriend at the age of 7 and two weeks after he molested me he raped my aunt, then when I was 8 I was molested by my cousin 9, uncle 12, and my aunt 8. They all hurt me until I was about 12. Although I was not raped I feel like you. My father would beat me until he was tired of beating me. I?m getting counseling now but one of the biggest things I regret is not reporting it when I had the chance. Now it does not make a difference if I report it because I am 20 yrs old. So I really hope that you find the power and courage to report it that you still have a chance to report it. So that they don?t hurt someone else.

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