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Jan 15, 2011
Liza:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I understand your fear of not being believed. The best advice I can give you is to contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 16, 2011
police, authority figures as abusers
by: My Two Cents

A quick comment, I believe there is more awareness of authority figures as potential abusers.

In Winnipeg, Manitoba, a police officer is waiting for a verdict in a sexual assault trial, he is accused of sexually abusing two aboriginal brothers on overnight trips.

I believe in the summer of 2009 or 2010, a judge in B.C. Was charged and convicted of sexual abuse of a minor female that he met through court.

There has also been more awareness in the media of abuse by authority figures like cops, judges, social workers etc. Shows like Law and Order, movies like "The Hurricane" have looked at judges, cops, and prison guards, among others as predators.

I know it is so scary, but I hope that you speak with the local child welfare people, or a professional criminal child abuse investigator about what these two police "men" did and your father as well.

You deserve to be kept safe, and to see these perverts punished for what they did to you. I hope you will read Darlene's advice and tell someone about what has happened.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

Jan 20, 2011
Talk it out with someone you trust:
by: maurice

Liza: you have been given from both their hearts words of love and encouragement to be brave: to be strong and tell what you wrote here on Darlene's safe haven site: Let it be you new beginning to take charge of your own life and destiny at sixteen: You are highly intelligent, very articulate in giving the details of what happened you and your friends by those bad men; Dangerous men to have in a possession of trust in upholding and safeguarding people: So called Law people people: My 2 Cents sure gave the true picture when she states that in every walk and profession of life there are abusers of children and the young: Watching as they raped your friend: must have been hard when you could do little to save her: She likewise when it was happening to you: If you are still friends have courage and talk to someone in your school or college: You both are responsible thinking teenagers: Your Father abused you too: Liza Darlene as always has given you hope in your life: there is a life to be lived after abuse even the horribleness of what you endured: Speak with a counselor: My two cents she too spoke from her heart to you: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF LIZA: My motto will be from now on: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: LISA why??? say, because I am WORTH it; I am special: I am beautiful: I deserve the best: I value my self respect and self WORTH: have a healthy mind in a healthy body: That means Liza getting off your bottom and taking part with your friends in team games and sporting and cultural activities: A whole new world will open up for you; You'll make real friends and have plenty of acquaintances to cheer you up and watch out for you; Ok Liza: First take courage into your hands and tell on these people who abused your tenderness and innocence: I will: I can I must etc liza

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