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Dec 14, 2010
Liz:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You're not a loser. Keep telling yourself that. If you do, it can start the process of healing, and eventually lead you to make healthier choices for you and your boys. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 17, 2010
here for you
by: Anonymous

liz. that is aweful that that happened to you. i hope i could try to help you by telling you that god loves you and will always be there to help you

Dec 18, 2010
The power of LOVE: The power of companionship/friend
by: maurice

Liz, you are just great and brave woman (your nationality be proud of it:} Abuse is abuse no matter what part of the world it happens: Your body was abused: Your whole life was a mess because of the abuseL I was not to Blame: It was never (ever) my fault: I was scared: I was afraid I pee'd in my pants nobody there to love and cherish me and to change my pants so I would not go smelly to school: Liz that and those memories are of your childhood/adolecent/young adult years: Let them go: move on: get real help: You have a lot of life to live for: You have children to love and cherish: Let them be your inner strength to get the help you need: the love you need: Have a friend, most important: one who will help, encourage you, stand by you, be firm in her love of you: Will Power Liz; wake up each day thinking positive: I will: I can: I must let this be your motto: Because LIZ you have alot of living to doy Begin today: NOW: let your therapist be your guide: she can, will encourage you get off your bottom and start living your life: It truly is up to you to get off your bottom so from today on Think Positive: Act positive: Be positive: don't foget your motto: Always believe in yourself: Be gentle and kind on yourself: Your kids will be your motive to get up and go: Let go of the past: my motto: I will etc.

Dec 18, 2010
i need advice
by: liz

thank u for the kind words i dont know what i wanna do with my life i have no education i nly went up to the 11th grade no ged and i am not good enough at school to get one i live with my bf but i am not happy he gets after my kds and pulled my oldest by the arm once and accidently made my youngest who is 3 fall off the bed by pushing him but i dont wanna go back home because me and my sister argue and my dad lived them we argue too and he threaten to kick me out to the street and beat me up and kill me because i had my air condioner on and wouldent turn it off! he is abusive pyhsically and mentally has been all my life and will never change he is just a bully and a bad parson i hate my life i dont know what to do!

Dec 19, 2010
HELP ON THE WAY
by: CAT

LIZ, IF UVE GOT NOWHERE TO TURN, TURN TO THE LAW. THEY WILL MAVE THE MEN WHO IMPREGENATED YOU PAY CHILD SUPPORT. THAT WILL HELP WITH THE MONEY ISSUES. IF ANY ADDITIONAL PROBLEMS HAPPEN PLEASE POST THEM ON THIS SITE UNDER YOUR STORY. I CAN GIVE YOU ADVICE AND TRY TO HELP YOU THROUGH. IM ON THIS SITE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE SO IM HERE FOR YOU.

-WITH LOVE, YOUR FRIEND CAT

Dec 20, 2010
Hearts speak to each other
by: maurice

Liz, now you have reached a safe haven to build up your self-worth and self confidence: With loving and supporting comments for you to read, get some peace of mind but also for you to do something that will change your pain into power: Darlene: She want truly what is the best for you: Cat, now there's a heart and a half please re-assure yourself there is help out there: But you will have to be brave, and be strong in yourself to go for it

Dec 22, 2010
i hope ican get child support i have been trying
by: liz

thank u maurice and cat and everyone else for your kind word's i read these story and it makes me feel like i am not alone and i am not the only one who has been through being abused .my kids father j--- lives in california and he quit his job so he wont have to pay child support and the child support people told me if he is not working i cant get any money and asked me to find out were he is working like i have a car to follow him around i dont even have a car or drive!when i went after him for it when he lived here in tx and lived rent free with a lady he knew who let him live there for free and he did not pay bills either just did whatever he wanted he would drink everyday hang with friends never bother to call or see his kids but told people i never let him see the kids and was mean! then he wanted to get back together after alot of month's of not seeing his kids or calling or never giving me any money and being a deadbeat dad asked me if he could claim the boys for income tax he give me money and turning around and keeping it all for himself! making me take a paternity test when i knew both kids are his. i said no. i just got a letter i might be able to get child support finally after all this time they found him and found out he is working and can take it out of check if he dosent quit before they do or lose his job! i hope and pray i get it raising 2 kids is expensive.

Dec 22, 2010
my problems
by: liz

my bf can be nice to my kid's he buys my oldest who just turned nine games and both kids stuff for christmas then sometimes he can be mean and get after them and make them cry i hate that and we argue i threaten to leave i feel unhappy sometimes but i stay i do love him and he has his good days and his bad days and he can be imature at times he is younger then me he is 24 i am 29 and he can be like it has to be all about him like i have to spend time with him or take showers or he gets mad at me he never hit me i know that! he has punched the wall once which scared me he has not done that again!i think both my kids like him i dont know what to do?and i tranfer my son out of school to live with my bf my son likes his new school too!i dont like my dad and i cant live with my brother cause my dad lives them and he threaten to hit me and kick me out to the streets when i lived there even kill me and me and my sis who lives there too argue we dont get along and would have to share a room because the house is only a 3 bedroom my dad and bro have the other 2 room's and she is mean to my kids! she yells at my oldest and will grab him by the arm and we argue cause of that!my bf or any men i cant trust alone with my son's too i have a hard time trusting men if he is alone in the room with my youngest i have to go check on them cause what i been through and my bf male cousin made him give him a bj when he was younger so he was molested in a way cause he didnt want to. and i know sometimes a abused person turns into an abuser and i dont think my bf would do that but i dont want my kids to ever be abused or go through what i went through!how can i trust better or is it better that i dont and i am weary of men!

Dec 23, 2010
You're beautiful just the way you are (:
by: Anonymous

I am ssooooo sorry to hear what you have gone through. I can't even imagine the pain you felt. Anyways, I'm not being mean but I don't think that you should have dropped outta school, no matter what you think you look like, you're beautiful just the way you are. See, if you wudda stayed in school and went to college, you could show your family that you were way better than what they are, and you did something with your life. You should be proud of who you are, and let that be the past. I know it's gonna be hard to forget, and you probably never will, and I know going to a therapist or doctor makes you feel wierd, so just try to set it aside and try to forget. And remember you're BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!! everyone is diffrent(:

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