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Mar 07, 2012
Lisa:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I don't believe as you believe. I don't believe in "sin". I believe each of us is here to experience what we experience, and that each of us is given free will. It can only be "free will" if there is no judgement attached to whatever we freely decide to do. I also believe that within us lives what we need, that Source (call it God, if you will) is Who We Really Are. You had no power as a child; that was taken away from you by so many, including the woman who was responsible for ensuring you stayed safe. And when you did finally get into a "loving" home, that love has turned out to be conditional. What's important to understand is that the love you seek is inside of YOU, Lisa. That love does not live outside of you or at the whim of someone else. Take back the power that is yours. You ARE worthy of dignity and respect and love. Start by treating your Self with that dignity and respect and love. You know the truth about what you lived. And now you can choose to not allow what happened in your childhood to define who you are. Who You Really Are does not come from what you've had to endure. From your experiences can come great power if you choose to turn the pain you experienced into power. As a child, none of what happened to you was your fault...you have no blame or shame to carry. As an adult, you can now choose to live your life to the fullest possible, fearlessly. I send you love, light and healing energy, Lisa. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

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