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Jan 03, 2012
Lisa:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Many who were abused as children do NOT go on to abuse their children. What matters is that YOU broke the cycle of abuse; I applaud and commend you for breaking that cycle. And while you are happily married and have a lovely precious daughter, you also admit to having anger issues...that WILL affect your marriage, your child and all aspects of your life. Please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with the anger issues you still experience. It's not that you don't have a right to the anger, it's that you don't want that anger controlling your life. And it will control your life as long as you hang onto it. I learned a long time ago that there is no letting go of anger or hostility...rather, anger and hostility let go of YOU when you bring light of understanding to what you experienced and then allow your Self to fully experience the emotions attached. When you try to bury those emotions they will continue to eat away at Who You Really Are. You didn't deserve to be abused, betrayed and abandoned, Lisa. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 04, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Lisa, you were given a raw deal. All of your abusers are truly helpless bullies who happened to use your amazing ability of cache for their sadistic gratification instead of just simply helping themselves. Beating you, torturing you, locking you up without food or water, sexually offending you, feeding you scraps of food and even destroying your beautiful long hair, what they did is abuse. As for your mom, she is no better because abandoning you to those sick, sadistic monsters and allowing them to beat, torture and berate you are among the ultimate acts of selfishness. They are really acting like little 1-year-olds trapped in their grown-up bodies because they are stuck in their own childhood, thus being trapped in their terrible twos. You are not to blame for their sadistic, ignorant behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you instead of helping themselves and changing their own dysfunctional ways. You were the child; they were the adults. they had all the power and only misused it over you. I'm glad that your husband is with you now because he is so sweet for doing that; I hope that you try counselling and that you look into reporting those sadistic beasts.

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