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May 24, 2011
Lisa:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Please get help for yourself, for what you've endured, so that you and your sons can have a better life. A life that doesn't expose them to further abuse. It starts with you, dear, it really does. Reach out for help from resources that are available to you within your community. You are right to worry about your boy. You're their mother, which means you must act in a way that is in their best interest. They rely on you for that. Check out a woman's shelter. Find out what's out there for you to lean on for support. You ALL deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. But it must start with you, Lisa. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 24, 2011
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by: Mishelle

i was raped by my own father too im 16 and remembering feels like hell, and it hurts but you gotta be strong you are not alone. take care of your babies like no one else will, but dont separate them from their fther so much cuz one day they will know and may not understand. get help if you are not ready to talk with anyone lok for books. there are great books that can help you. there's one called "how long does it hurt by Judy Wood" it helped me a lot! hope you get help! Be strong i understand your pain....God Bless you!

May 26, 2011
Hmmm...
by: AnonymousT

I find it suspicious when a man says if he can't see his children in the manner he wants he just won't see them. How very hurtful to them & incredibly manipulative to you!

I agree with Darlene, please get help. If you can work through your pain and start to heal, it will only help you achieve the confidence you need to be the great mom I know you are, you are in full on protective mode for them and honestly, i think that's commendable.

So help you - because by getting help for yourself - you're helping your boys.

Much luck to you.

T

May 27, 2011
I can,t move on
by: Lisa

In my head I can,t move on the memories will always be here and in a strange way I,m scared to because if I could, I feel like I might let my guard down and something could happen to them even when there at school I worry because I,m not with them. I like to know there safe, and as for there Dad I told him he can see them but not on his own but he ain,t happy with that and that don,t sound right, how do I know he ain,t the same as the rest of them. I know I probably sound crazy but I just can,t take that chance, I would,nt be able to live with my self. I think I,d rather be alone than to take the chance. I want to protect them. Like I wish could have happen for me. I don,t have nothing to do with my dad any more but that don,t stop him trying to contact me. I think its probably because of the kids that also scares me. Every night I sleep with the door open just so if they need me I will hear them call.

May 29, 2011
Great Job
by: Amira

At least you told ur story, that's all that matters, now we can spread awareness about child abuse and stop it.

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