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Oct 01, 2009
Understandable anger...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, Lexi. I congratulate you on deciding not to let this sex offender ruin the rest of your life. You are strong and I have no doubt you'll do well in university. I also believe reporting what this child molester did to you could mean that he will not be able to molest another girl.

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Oct 01, 2009
A sadistic pervert and pedophile for a step-dad
by: Anonymous

Lexi, your dirty pig of a step-dad (if you want to call him that) really is a sadistic pervert and he really should be locked up in prison for all those disgusting and terrible crimes that he committed against you. I'm sorry you were forced to go through that mess...and I hope you tell someone you really trust and try counselling in the same time. Be brave, Lexi, and stay strong!

Oct 05, 2009
Another Step Father. how many more out there ?
by: maurice

Lexi 1. your just one very brave and strong teenager/young adult. You'll make it after you abuse. You are one determined beautiful and wonderful woman with high ideals fr you to reach. Annoymous expressed my gut feeelings about that horrible Step Father. I probably would be more vocal and more determined in dealing with him as well as sending him to prison. He needs to be taken out of circulation before he abuses other innocent girls. I hope some day you and your mother get to know the real truth about him when you share what he did to you with her. You love your mammy, I've no doubt she loves you too Lexi1 she will be ready in time to hear you out. Hi look in the mirror and see one very strong and d etermined young lady who know what she wants in life for herself and won't stop at anything until she reaches her goal. Good on you Lexi 1. I will, I can, I must, Hi be gentle and kind to that beautiful body of yours caress it, sooth it, massage it oil and cream it back to what is was before that beast of a man put his hands on it. Letting go of the awful memories Lex1 1. I'M SPAECIAL AND I LOVE ME. If you can share with a therapist who will really quicken your healing process. Be ACTIVE be alive, get involved with others in team sports have a healthy mind in a healthy body. No better way to love your body but by keeping it healthy. eraising all the negative feelings about it. Think positive, act positive, be positive in all you do and say. live well, laugh alot, love much. Lexi 1

Oct 07, 2009
it was not your fault!
by: Anonymous

this story makes me sick to my stomach because of what he did to you! what i hate the most is he was sick enough to laugh about it. you are a strong beautiful person and you dont deserve that. i know this may sound crazy, but you need to tell your mother what really happened. even if it is a phone call or writing a letter. dont let her be married to such a pervert. what happens if you little cousins or even worse, if your mom gets pregnant? just think about telling your mom seriously.

Oct 08, 2009
how loving, how caring fpr you
by: maurice

Please Lexi 1 Anonmous has given you positive ways of letting your mother know abiut that animal of a Step Father, she'll hear you and will love you for being ever so trusting of her as your Mommy. Darlene and us all love you, pray you will get the courage to tell your mother. It will be a huge step in your healing process. I can, I will, I must. because I LOVE ME

Oct 22, 2009
It will be alright
by: Anonymous

You have come a long way. This wasn't your fault. Give your Mom a chance. If you can't tell her..walk in when "He" isn't there and give her a copy of your letter. Maybe you both will be able to get on with your lives.

Nov 02, 2009
Same story
by: Anonymous

Lexi1, I am lighthouse and I want to tell you that I understand your pain. I was in the same situation and its hard to be afraid. I was only 5 years old when my adopted dad started playing doctor like he would say. I can still remember the night he made me play with his penis, when he started kissing my private, putting his fingers inside me thinking that it was ok. I got the same threats as you did, I will hurt you if you tell anyone. I did tell my adopted mom but she didn't believe me, they both called me every name in the book. It continued until I was about 18 when I finally ran away from home. But yet he wasnt the only one having fun with me, my grandpa, uncles to me it seemed like if I had done something so wrong to go through all that. Just to let you know you are not alone and I envie your courage, your the innocent and if your mom couldn't see that then she was just blind.

Nov 05, 2009
child abuse hater
by: child abuse hater

makes me sick to hear wat some people are capable of doing to others and the effects that are left with these people, im very sickened that u had to get an abortion and that u had to give up a child i dont wish that upon anyone.

i hope all goes well for u in the rest ov ur life because u deserve the right to a good life, watever u amount to in life just know there are people out there who care, i strongly believe you will succeed after your terrible childhood and u will become something your mother clearly wasnt and thats a good mother.

and i hope that thing u call ur step dad has been rid ov cos makes me sick to no people like him have walked our earth.

Nov 12, 2009
:0
by: Anonymous

OH my word!! I'm so mad I could just ahhh! Did you ever tell your mother? Oh.. God bless you and the rest of your life.

Nov 13, 2009
Always believe in yourself.
by: maurice

My prayer this day is that you are healing and living now each day to the full that you arise from your pillow. Lexi 1. you have a number of genuine people who have made their feelings known to you out of love, value and respect. emphatisising with you in all you endured through being abused by a very sad sicko Step Father. I hope you are talking to a counsellor and letting go of those awful years in your life. Thinking of you. Praying for you.

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