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Oct 11, 2010
Leslie:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

None of what happened is your fault. NONE OF IT. This man is a pedophile. He's attracted to little girls. This has nothing to do with you. You have every right to feel as you do toward this child molester. Please talk to your family about getting into some form of counseling. You need help dealing with all of this. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 12, 2010
Why do Parents abuse their dignity of their own children?
by: maurice

More times than not one hears of parents or a parent being a pediphile beginning within the walls of the house they live in: about their daily work and chores mixing with neighbours and are seen to be good workers in their place of employment: Yet behind closed doors they are groomng their own children as sexual objects for their gratification and sickness: Leslie please don't blame yourself: Stop today: You did no wrong: It was not my fault say over and over again: Darlene has given you loving encourageing words where to get real help: Beginning with family members to help you let go of the guilt trip your beast of a father put you on: Making you feel there was nothing wrong in what he was doing to you: He ruined what should have been your innoncence: your childhood years and dignity: Your Mother should have known better when you told her that he was not going to stop molesting his own precious child: Leslie: I am certain you have a real friend or friends your own age and gender at school: Let them help you have the courage to go to a school counsellor or a caring teacher: He is out of your life now: Stop fretting yourself anymore: You have to make a life for yourself NOW: stay in education: Always believe in yourself: Say occassionally I LOVE ME: Begin having a healthy mind in a healthy body: Taking part in team sports is the most natural way to have good and true friends from among your team mates: There is safety in numbers: You are special with your own gifts and tallents: Share them around: Build up your own self WORTH and Esteem: You'll be fine: You have a whole life to be lived each day to the full: BUILD UP A LOVING MIRROR IMAGE OF YOURSELF: Be gentle and kind but firm with yourself: Especially reading the re-assuring words of Darlene to you personally: Counselling will make positive your feelings about all that Beast did to you: He is not worth the name Father: He abused and molested YOU: making you feel guilty if you did not tell: almost telling you to say it was right so that he could fullfill his animal insticts on his knowing little girl that it was not right: Out of fear she did not keep telling on him: He was a bad, bad man Leslie: I only hope and pray he gets caught and jailed: Taking him away from other such beautiful and lovely girls like you: He is a pedophille a child molester: A beast: Leslie: You can turn your fears and doubts into power: By getting counselling and warning other children and teenagers Don't let your father or any one ever touch you inappropriately any part of your body: Have courage and act on Darlene's comment of heart felt words to you Leslie

Mar 20, 2012
effects
by: Anonymous

I certainly agree, please have courage, I am a survivor too of this awful disgusting terrible thing. I have not gotten positive affection all of my life from family because they say it did not happen, and still do this today (I am 40) It is a struggle everyday, but the affirmations are what get me through. I KNOW what happened, I can give myself love, I DONT NEED anyone who is toxic and who says I am making it up. I try to make time for relaxation and hold my head up. I try to get my power back with taking control of caring for myself and now for my 3 beautiful children. I am not perfect, but I do not consider myself dirty or changed or even an abuser, it is amazing what american soiety can do: blame the victim. Its not you, you didnt know, you were too young. You processed it very well and I hope others leave positive encouragement for you. You are prayed for.

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