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Apr 19, 2011
Leeya:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

When you say you "lost your virginity to your father", it implies that you somehow consented to having sex with him. That's not what happened at all, which you finally eluded to toward the end of your story. Your father "raped" you, Leeya. He sexually abused you. And now you seem to believe he sexually abused because your mother wasn't there for him. Think again. Your father is a sex offender; and for all you know, he would have raped you even if your mother was still alive. This isn't about you being "another women". It's about him getting sexual gratification where he had no right to it. As for what you now do to cope with all of this, it's self-destructive. You are basically destroying what your father didn't destroy. And that means only YOU can change that. Drinking, smoking and everything else you do to cope is only going to make your life more complicated and miserable. I don't know of any hotline numbers for you to call where you live. All I can offer is encouragement for you to go inside your Self to do what you know is right for you. The fact that you want a life is important. So start by making healthy decisions for yourself whenever and wherever you possibly can. Get yourself out of that house if possible, and stop the drinking and smoking in favour of getting yourself into a better Self space. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Apr 20, 2011
Leeya...
by: Anonymous

Leeya, something's seriously wrong with your dad and he needs help. Oh, and you are not to blame; he is to blame because he chose to offend you. You were the child; he was the adult; he had all the power and even misused that power over you, so the sooner you tell someone, the better. Please keep telling someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you.

Apr 20, 2011
Safe Place: Safe Haven to express true feelings of the effects of abuse
by: maurice

Leeya: you have reached a place where if you are truly honest with yourself you'll get help: Darlene has written real words of love: value: resepct: knowing you suffered Rape: was sexually abused by your Father (beast) Read her words: make them heart for you: She wrote them from her womans heart, she sure does empatise with you: You were so innocents when you felt you lost your virginity that is was a natural re-action: Don't blame yourself: It was not my fault that BEAST so called Father raped his beautiful daughter: Yes, Leeya your so called father was a bad, bad man: If it is possible get back into education: STOP your SH'T habits of drugs drink your going no where there: Clean up your act: Get honest, caring people around you who truly value and respect you: Leeya, you are intelligent, you know exactly what darlene and I are saying to you: Be brave> Be strong: Get real help: change the company you keep: Us only children are special let's be proud of it: Yes, I had a single mom: she was great as I have no doubt your mother would have been too: You miss her: Loads; let her still be your inner strength to believe in yourself: make her proud of you by you being proud of yourself: Hi Leeya: let your motto be: I WILL I CAN I MUST because I am WORTH IT: I'll be a winner over my molesting father who raped me to fulfill his own sexual gratification on his child: You have real hearts of LOVE speaking to from a distance: human hearts speak to each other the colour of our skin has nothing to do with it:

Apr 27, 2011
Advice
by: ROSA KATHERINE

that story is alot to deal with... nd i hope u get justice from it.
youre dad is an a**hole for doing that
You are a stron lady and im sure u can get past this
u know us girls can get passed anything.
You have to seek some help
it isnt right at all.
You did nothing wrong at all.
take care

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