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Apr 03, 2010
You have NOTHING to be ashamed of...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Lee, you were a little boy, and yes, sexual stimulation feels good. So give yourself a break and stop feeling shame for something that was perfectly natural. You were molested...it wasn't your fault. Period. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Apr 08, 2010
I am in charge of my own destiny NOW
by: maurice

I can emphatise with your feeling's stil after all the years but I am damned if I can let you continue for the rest of your life feeling sorry for yourself. Darlene sure has given you re-assuring words for you to ponder on. Move on Lee1 I can, I will, I must, because I am WORTH it. I have lived a good life, I am in a good place right now. Why am I still allowing this to effect my living life to the full each day NOW. reading Darlene words to you answer this honestly and get on with your life. Think Positive, Act Positve be Positive in all you do and say NOW. You were sickly, Your Mother loved you and meant well in safeguarding you in the best way she knew at the time. That Naughty older cousin used you, molested you, certainly not being aware that what he did would be still playing on your mind all these years later. He was a molester: He played on your innocence and vunerability. I am sure you have made a greater sense of your health and are coping with whatever effects it has caused you over the years. You are I am certain very aware of Darlene's words of your natural growth as a child and adolecent. I like it when she says, give yourself a break and stop feeling shame after all these years. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. Live well, Laugh alot, Love much. Lee 1. let go, be free of all the negative feeling's you might still have around it. If you find it difficult maybe a talk with a counsellor will allow you to blossom and grow and live each day to the full. You must take the neccessary steps Lee 1. Darlene words will help and empower you. new beginnings. new out look, new horizons to look out at. I can, I will, I must etc.

Jul 12, 2010
It's not your fault
by: John

I'm sorry that this happened to you. In no way are you ever at fault for any of this. I had a similar thing to happen to me and carried guilt and shame for years. Try talking to a professional as it can help you accomplish a sense of wholeness and healing.

Jul 13, 2010
Listen and learn:
by: maurice

Lee 1 we care about you and your welbeing: You are truly a very intelligent man and adult in all your thinking and doing: Let go of the past: You sure received the most wonderful heart felt comment from Darlene's heart: Act on what she wrote: Simple and direct loving caring words from a professional as well as a victim who over came abuse: Turning her abuse into helping and empowering others because she left go of her past: Lee 1 I assure you sadly the effects of abuse linger on and on but the seriousness of what happened to us as children or in our adolecent years deminshes especially when we go for counselling and get help: I am certain from Darlene's words you can move on, let go, John likewise and myself were abused but we have taken the advice, support and encouragement of counselling and certainly from Darlene's comment to what we wrote: Put what happened to you in perspective now: In your honest letting go by telling and sharing your story with Darlene and her visitors you sougth help: ways in which to let go and grow up and away from what your molester did to you: I have memories of hay sheds and barns too from my adolecent years: I was nieve and innocent as were all those around me: somewere more maturer than the rest of us and knew what they were doing playing and messing with our genitals but it was all innocent fun: because it all happened so natirally at the tme: It is only if I entertained the memory that it took on the seriousness of abuse and molestation: So Lee 1 we all care about you esecially Darlene: Live well: Laugh alot: Love much: and live your life to the full by letting go NOW, Today, Holding on won't do you any good and making what happened to you natural will help you in your life now:

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