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Aug 29, 2010
Larry:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It was the belief that HE was worthless, not you. You were his outlet because, like you said, you were helpless as a child, and he saw something in you that he didn't have. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Aug 29, 2010
thank you
by: touched2mysoul

A big "thank you" for sharing your story!

Aug 30, 2010
god bless that mess, and thank god he is gone you better man i guess than him meant for this life he must have had issues more sik mental
by: Anonymous

oh
i am commenting not for sympathy but your story was like reading a book , i could feel what it felt like when he played that game must have to you , then when you stood up to him as a man i could feel how it felt and in the end too , when he died, and it made tears come to me, and you really said it very clear and story almost . maybe you learned something that all of us early on never have , takes us years to understand you knew from the beginning of it all, naming yourself and , knowing self and then even married
for yourself , i could even picture the funeral the way you told your story and well cloths , you really should consider writting to help others or biblography of your family history what is bible belt i heard about that , see well abuseive people they dont think the way you do, i dont think whatever you had said he understand even in the end anyway, the part where you paid for his things and such successful although he so sick didnt even see what you were important, your wife does and family maybe your mom and i dont know
i come from italian background and they sacrificed for kids died early out of this neglect on self gave to kids , so i cant understand but i do know its true this , i married family that were ignorant too , educated but ignorant to family and morals , i have sons who also helped me and dad and step dad we are younger than you, generations, and the abusive ones never appreciated that generosity or love,
but i did and made sure i was there for them even when they didnt appriciate this from me, and abusive ones manipulated them, so i understand how angry you must have been too. a man that named himself too thats like a metaphor i think you should write maybe help someone , biblography or other type . pay you back for the bike too, see he well was very sick person, the name and the game and the beating i hope you give back some way and not to him give that million to those need it or deserve it , sell millions of stories maybe . i only know the opposite to your story a immigrant family who sacrificed his parents to point where they died young sick put all the kids thru colleage i found america here and our country i was born flaws in family born from and in america i have european blood both sides and so do my kids , ok then good luck you should write really had me thinking reading this story.

Aug 30, 2010
Your story
by: Anonymous

Larry,

Just one question. I am the mom of a child who was severly abused. Almost the exact story as yours.

How do you feel about your mother and her role in this.

My son has now ceased to speak with me or let me in any part of his life.

After he had children, he was convinced I had failed him.

Our moderator gave me cause to think. She says my child looks at me with abandonment because I left him for so long in that situation.
And did not get out for too many years.
The damage has been done.

I miss him terribly and wanted to know if you have suggestions as the same thing happened to you how I can let him know I love him , I was responsible and I live with this cross every day.

The exile is unbearable.

Thank you

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