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Jun 18, 2011
Kody:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

For goodness sake, most people, especially a therapist, would never think badly of you for what you did and didn't do as a little girl. You are putting more mature adult-like values on decisions that you made when you were too little to be making any decisions for yourself at all. You're beating yourself up for no reason at all.

As for children who molest other children, also known as "sexually intrusive children", they have almost always been sexually abused themselves, and they don't know any better. My child sex offenders page on this site speaks to this. Of course, it doesn't change the fact that you are suffering from the effects of these molestations, and that you need help for these repercussions. Talk to your therapist in order to get some clarity and perspective on what happened to you with these two boys. And always remember that it wasn't your fault. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jun 19, 2011
When I was a child I thought as a child: Now as an adult I must think as an adult
by: maurice

Kody: I am sorry to read you are still upset and some how still being anxious about some aspects of those boys behaviour: Kody read Darlene's comment over a few times especially the beginning pargraphs: This is the truth so stop dwelling on the incidents that happened you as a child; You protectd yourself it was not right what they did but you certainly did not encourage them: You did the right thing to value and respect yourself: You had the courage of your convictions that it was not right what they were doing: so stop worrying yourself about it now: Again Darlene expressed her true feelings from her heart to you: Yes: do talk to a therapist who surely will put you at ease and help you to tell her what you shared here with Darlene and her visitors: trust yourself it is important that you get clarity on these boys antics as children too remeember: They may not have meant it to effect you as it seems to have: But you'll be fine: Have ahealthy mind in a healthy body get out and about being active and alive with your friends and fellow students playing team sports emphasis on Team because you will broaden you horizons and your self respect and esteem will soar higher and higher: You'll have a natural appreciation of your body; You'll make natural and real friends for life: with plenty of aquaintances who will make you feel good each time ye cross path's I know it will open up your mind and help you mature as an inteeligent thinking adolecent and young woman; You are gifted; you are tallented: I am certain you have leadership qualities to be a good team person and maybe captain: I'M SPECIAL: BE GENTLE AND KIND TO YOURSELF; SAY I LOVE THAT BEAUTIFUL ME LOOKING OUT AT ME FROM THE MIRROR: HAVE A HEALTHY MIND IN A HEALTHY BODY: I will, I can< I must, WHY??? because I am worth it: Kody say I AM.

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