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Jan 23, 2012
 Kevin:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Abuse is bad enough on it own, but when we are forced out of tremendous fear to keep it all inside and when others believe the abuser is a good or great parent, that makes the effects that much worse. But no matter what happened to you at the hands of a sick and twisted mother, you can choose to live your life in a way that is productive and true to Who You Really Are. Your mother is no longer abusing you. You are no longer in danger with her. What you're left with are your memories. And now as you move through you life, those memories are re-lived in your mind more often than the abusive incidents' themselves. I remember when I realized this for the first time: that I was in fact abusing my Self by constantly re-living the incidents' and doing nothing to actually deal with them. That I had taken the torch from by abusers and psychologically beat my Self up in much the same way my abusers had, re-telling my Self all the nasty messages that I had received. When I realized I had a choice about what to think, I automatically changed how I felt, which in turn automatically changed how I acted. But I needed help with confronting my emotions. Please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with all that you were forced to endure at the hands of the woman who was responsible for keeping you safe from harm. You didn't deserve to be mistreated, Kevin. You deserved to be treated with dignity and respect and love; and now you deserve help for the fact that you weren't. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I send you love, light and healing energy.

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Darlene Barriere
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Jan 24, 2012
 The Horror
by: Anonymous

Kevin, what a sick, sadistically insane, deluded mother that you had to lock you in the car and then terrorize you into keeping quiet...how dare she! She is a sadistic brute and she should've gone to jail, so please tell someone you really trust. I also hope that you try counselling and that you look into reporting that sadistic beast to prison.

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