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Jan 31, 2011
Kella:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You ARE capable. You ARE lovable. You ARE worthy. Don't believe the lies you've been told or the negative messages you've received from your parents and aunt. They aren't true. You must believe in yourself, Kella. If you believe you can't mature, then you won't mature. You're much stronger and more capable than you can ever imagine. And just for the record, Singapore has LOTS of child abuse. It's just that it's hidden, and because the government itself, and therefore the law, doesn't recognize what real child abuse actually is. Please talk to someone you trust, someone who can help to build your self confidence and self esteem. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 01, 2011
Such cruelty
by: Anonymous

Kella, what your so-called parents and relatives did to you is pathetic and ungrateful because they are really twisted, sick, sadistic and cruel in their own ways of thinking. They don't know how to love, so all they knew was hate...so they should've known better and loved and cherished you. Oh, and you are not to blame; in fact, those beasts are to blame because you were the child; they were the adults. They had all the power and they only misused it over you. You don't ever deserve to be abused in any way; in fact, you deserved so much better than what those sickos did to you. They certainly don't deserve you in their lives. Oh, and did I mention that they even abused your cousin by grooming her to be anti-social towards you? Most people who treat someone just the way you were treated often do it out of jealousy because they knew that they could never be such a beautiful shining star like you. I can relate, at least a little bit. The homework thing...yes, I can relate. Anyway, I really hope that you are in a safe place now and that you will try counselling.

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