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Dec 22, 2010
Kayla:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You are anything BUT a weak link! The weak link in your family is your sex offender of a father. I'm not a clinician or a doctor, but you sound depressed. Keep in mind that depression means you've been trying too hard to stay strong. And STRONG you most definitely are!

All those things you keep calling yourself, they're lies. Pure lies. They apply to your abuser; not you. You ARE worthy of love. You are NOT disgusting or any of those other terrible things you keep telling yourself. Please talk to someone other than a friend, someone who is in a position to really able able to help you: a college counselor is a great place to start. Look into some resources available to you in your community. Your college should be able to help you in that regard. Just don't keep the secret any longer, because the only person you are protecting when you do is the man who doesn't deserve to be protected. And always remember, none of what happened was your fault. Fault lies solely and squarely on the shoulders of the sick man that sexually abused you. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 24, 2010
Don't quit: Don't give up on yourself: Be a winner
by: maurice

After reading your sad, sad story ever so real to you the sexual abuse of a Father (Beast) who robbed you of a beautiful innocent years of childhood/adolecence: Hi know you will be the winner over him: Please read Darlene's heart: yes she is a gifted woman/professional relationship lady: She wrote encourageing affirming words to you Kayla: You are a very intelligent young thinking student and woman: I am sure you can source a counselling service provide by your college: Be brave, be strong just walk in and tell them what you told Darlene and her many visitors: Let the end of this year 2010 be the turning point in your life: New Beginnings, with a new year: Let your 2011 motto be I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: beause I am WORTH it. Who am I: what am I?? I am WORTH it: Hi Kayla I was delighted to read you are keepingg a healthy mind in a healthy body by taking part in team sports and sporting things in your college: That Kayla will be your saving help: Live well: laugh alot: Love much: Kayla build on your self WORTH/ESTEEM: Look in that mirror really do and say loving constructive things about yourself: I am instead I am not: I have a nice whatever instead of saying I don't like whatever: Be gentle and kind to your body: Rem, my motto: I will: I can etc
I am sure you have 1/2 special people your own age and gender that you call friends: Enjoy quality time with them hug each other: Friends your own age and gender will allow you to talk real girlie/womanly stuff and protect each other when relatiuonships may not be working ouT: Always believe in yourself Kayla: Darlene has given you the stepping stones to begin widening your horizon following your dreams: choose a flower to be and push back the petal that are weighing you down back letting the light shine in: Blossom where you are at Kayla:

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