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Oct 06, 2010
Kassandra:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted that you are now in a safe place, but you can't deal with this alone. You need help. Please consider some form of counseling in order to hellp get you through the repercussions of what your aunt and uncle did to you: not just beatings and emotional abuse, but betrayal and abandonment. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 07, 2010
You are one very Brave Young Lady: Always believe in YOURSELF
by: maurice

Kassandra: I know of so many house: not homes like the one you describe: I am and would never make comparisons on any similarities of the telling of the truth: It is so personal to each one it happened to: We read is so much how ste-father have abused: because they are not their own flesh and blood: Equally Uncles: yes, and aunts abused their nieces and nephews even they were partly family: That house you were in was a form of institution with all the rules you speak about for your brother and you: What goes on behind closed doors we'll never know: No matter the status of the people behind them: I have learned thru the years that the wealthy are not the better parents or family builders: Again putting that statement perspective 20'30% of such backgrounds hide all that goes on behind closed doors: Your Uncle/Aunt sure did this to you and your brother and I notice they did that until they became less status by no work etc: Then the real human side of them came to the fore: You were the unlucky one: You are highly intelligent: You are gifted: You are SAFE NOW: With the help of your loving mother and father you can now live your life to the full: Darlene's comment: Now Kassandra: take her loving words to your heart because they are from her big woman's heart to your: Get help: speaking with a counselor will put you on the road to being a winner over the abuse that was dealt out to you: You will be fine: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes that what I am asking you to have: It will do you a power of good: Believe me it will open up new horizons and change your outlook on life: So off your bottom: get out there taking part with like minded friends and people taking part in sporting and cultural activities: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: Always believe in yourself: Build up your self esteem: be gentle and kind to yourself in front of the mirror: Say nice things about yourself: No negative stuff: soothe away those scars of what those bad, bad people did to you with scented oils and creams: Ah now you'll feel better: No hug and cuddle your self: Era go on there's no one looking; I love to do it occasionally and I'm 64: Love yourself Kassandra: Be safe: Live well: Laugh a lot: LOVE much: I will: I will: Why???? because I am WORTH it; Get my message Kassandra: I do; I do:

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