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Jan 09, 2010
Kara:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

While I thank you for giving my visitors and me an update to what is happening with you, I must also say that healing and recovery from child abuse cannot come from a relationship with another person. Healing comes from within yourself. I know that's hard to believe right now, especially when the feelings are so strong for this other person, but when the infatuation falls away or if the relationship falls apart (as it did with your ex), you are still left with the repercussions of a childhood of abuse and neglect. Please consider seeking out some form of counselling. You deserve that kind of help.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 10, 2010
What a NEW YEARS gift to all of HER visitors
by: Maurice

Kara ''WOW'' you brought the best out in Darlene, her woman's heart, her professionalism in writing supporting/encourageing words to each of her visitors personally. She sure has written the most encourageing one's to you this time. Heed Her for I know you will then make a greater sense of relationships. They may come and go as did your ex. You have to live with yourself still. Build up your own self worth. Tell yourself I love myself. while I need to be loved and to be told that I am. My love for me is still the most imortant to build on. I do not need to say any more except Kara. as you begin a NEW YEAR you will take ownership of Darlene's words to and truly act on them, Believe in Them. Make a real sense of them just for you. I know they have helped me evn though she meant them for you. She's the best, Her Woman's Heart is gentle, sensitive and loving for each one she walks with in her life and indeed for each one who is brave enough to write their abuse story on her site. Genuine and Sincere. Kara. Thank you Darlene.

Mar 27, 2011
Thank you so much
by: Kara

Its taken me over a year to relize just how right you are. My healing does come from with in. I'm am still with the guy i was dating when i wrote this. He's there if i need him but doesn't pressure me about stuff. He listens if i wanna talk and holds me when i dont.

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