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Jan 17, 2012
Kami:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I understand how you can make the leap that all men are scum...but that simply isn't so. There are some very good men in the world. You were sexually abuse by a multitude of sick perverts, pedophiles, that is a fact. These pedophiles were looking for someone who was young and vulnerable, someone they could take advantage of. And you were continually placed in more and more vulnerable situations, would put you are greater and greater risk for more sexual abuse. If you haven't already, please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you deal with the anger and hostility and rage. You need this for your Self, Kami. And you deserve that kind of help. Given your circumstances, seek it out from a female. You didn't deserve to be abused. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. You don't have to always be afraid, unless you want to. Start by treating your Self better than anyone ever has. Trust your Self first. If you're prepared to do the work, the rest will fall into place. I send you love, light and positive energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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Jan 20, 2012
I thought all men just wanted sex, too!
by: Mayday Maggie

But, eventually, I came to see that wasn't true. And, believe me, getting over that feeling will make you feel free! In my case, when I married my husband almost 20 years ago, I thought he just wanted a steady diet of sex from me, like he wanted to take something from me. He understood that and over time showed me that he truly loved me. I remember one time when he said he was fasting from sex for 40 days. It impressed me. He was always gentle and let me take the lead as often as possible. Soon, I came to know that being intimate wasn't just about him taking something from me but rather giving something beautiful to me! You can heal, trust God! He made you and he can make you good as new!



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