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Mar 20, 2011
Kaitlyn:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You're a wonderful sister; and most definitely more mature than your years, understanding that your little sister deserves a better life. I'm delighted you realize that what your mother was doing to you is not your fault. That it's not about you. Because it really isn't. You have every right to be angry with your mother. Just don't let it eat away at you and harden you the way it has eaten away and harden your mother. The best way I know to avoid that is to get into some form of counseling, and to be honest about your feelings and emotions during your sessions. Dealing with what you've endured is so important to the healing process. Be honest and open with your dad too. He's there to be a support for you. Consider also contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about what you're feeling. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 20, 2011
Try talking to your dad
by: Anonymous

Kaitlyn, you were given a raw crappy deal because your so-called mom, along with your grandpa, was so twisted and screwed up in her own ways of thinking that she didn't even know how to take care of herself, never mind be a mother to you. She didn't know how to love even herself; all she ever knew is hate so she should've known better and loved and cherished you. You deserved so much better than what she did to you because you, your sister and even your dad did nothing wrong. Oh, and what happened to you wasn't and never will be your fault. You are not to blame for her nearly sadistic, messed up behavior; she is to blame because she chose to use and abuse you. You were the child; she was the adult; she had all the power and she misused it over you. Oh, and mothers who abuse their own daughters are, in fact, one of the real abusers. She should've had the courage to seek as much professional help as she needs instead of abusing you. The path that she and even your grandpa chose is inexcusable. However, I'm glad that your dad is with you now because he is so sweet for doing that, just try talking to him and somebody else you trust and please do so look into trying counseeling.

Mar 21, 2011
You survived
by: Ayase Paul Yukiya

Kaitlyn I am so happy you survived your mother's terrible abuse. It brought me back some memories about when i was abused by my mother.
And I am glad that your father saved you and your sister.
My father did the same for me, he and my mother got a divorce, just like you they fought over me and my sister. My father won and he founded a girlfriend who is really nice.
She loves me and My sister, and we treat my father's girlfriend as a mother to us.
I hope you won't tell your children what happened with your alchoholic mother.

Mar 22, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

And so say all of us: Deligehted for you Kaitlyn you are away from that sicko of a mother ( it hurts me to say that)Be cause for me mothers are our biblical cord and tattoo for life: Nature itself the birthing of a gift and child: Sadly Kaitlyn you were birthed by someone who was not aware of that: What a protecting big sis you are: you are ever so right your wee sister deserves alot more: Your the best: All comments to you affirm that: Please Kaithlyn pay specialheed to DARLENE's woman's heart comment to you: Follow her affirming and encourageing words: You Be fine; Surround yourself with caring loving people special friends: Who will love, value, respect and cherish you for the gifted. tallented child/teenager you are: Brgin having a healthy mind in a healthy body and set good example for your little sister: Get out and about being active and alive with your friends, class-mates fellow students taking part in team sports and sporting and cultural activities: I belive this is one sure way to have real natural friends for life with loads of aquaintances who will acknowledge you for the beautifula and wonderful person you truly are: These are affirming words from you to other children/adolecents: I quaote them as you wrote them: I hope after reading this that people realize that if your mother/father or anyone is abusing you in anyway you should write it down or at least tell some-one: Good on you Kaitlyn

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