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Nov 20, 2013
Julie:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You are so much more than what happened to you. You are NOT defined by what happened to you. Yes, your father stole something from you that was too precious to take. And your family abandoned you when you needed them the most. Siding with the pedophile. That's on them, not you. You did what was right. And may have been successful in stopping someone else from being abused in the same way in the process. As long as what happened to you takes over, you continue to give your power to the pedophile and others. You CAN take your power back by making the decision to change what you think about what happened. Look for ways to bring purpose to what you endured. Perhaps it's by helping others who have suffered in the same way. But whatever it is, you have the strength. After all, you survived the worst of it. What's left are your thoughts. You have the power, Julie. You really do. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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Dec 24, 2013
You Did The Right Thing
by: Sakura Mizushima

I agree with Darlene, what you did by calling the police was right. But having your family turn against you was wrong of them. You did the right thing by calling the police on your father, they should been proud of you for doing that or they would be living in a world of incest for the rest of their lives and your relatives would have been thinking that your father was a great man. And your family abandoned you when you needed them the most, what they did was sided with a pedophile by having their minds clouded thinking that he was a good man/father. Even blinded your brother and sister to have sex with each other, what they should realize of what they were doing was wrong even learning of what your father did was wrong. Even if they don't realize it they would be lost in their minds thinking that incest is ok for their children to do.

May 01, 2014
You are almost there.
by: IBA

Life was a struggle but you are winning the race. :)

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