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Sep 25, 2013
JS:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I understand what it's like to take on what others have thought of us. What it's like to believe the lies. And when I finally came to the understanding that they WERE lies, things began to change for me. The people who did such terrible things and the people who chose to turn a blind eye and minimize what happened to you have no credibility. None whatsoever. Yet how easy it is for us to give up our power to them. When you take back that power, JS, what others think and say no longer matter. When you recognize that what you endured was wrong, but that you have come through it with the intention of making a better life for yourself and your as yet unborn son, then you can see things in a different light. Rather than be haunted or tormented by what you endured, see things in a more positive way. Rather than look upon what you survived as robbing you of anything, see it as an opportunity to provide something better for your son and yourself. You see, JS, it's our thoughts that continue to bring suffering to our lives after abuse. After all, the abuse is over. So change your perspective about what happened to you to reflect the positive in your life now, then everything will change. I send you and your new family love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

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