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Sep 22, 2010
Josie:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Don't beat yourself up about this. He groomed you and your friend and others. That's what pedophiles do; they take advantage of young peoples' vulnerabilities. Talk to your parents about counseling. Yes, it means you need to tell them what actually happened to you, but you might be surprised how liberating telling will be. No more secrets. No more lies. Just the truth, and then the help you need to get through all this. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Sep 24, 2010
I am not to blame: He preyed on my innocence and vunerability
by: maurice

Josie: You have been give loving re-assurances from Darlene in her affirming of you: Great you shared your true story here with Darlene and her visitors: When you make the real sense of what she has said to you: You know what is the best way forward for you: Trust your loving Parenets: They will listen to you and believe all you tell them: They know this man is a pedophile: They want you to be safe: They love you enough to protect you from such sick people: Please take darlene's words to your heart: You are a very intelligent girl, you know she is re-assuring you that it was not your fault: Always believe in yourself: Let your motto be I WILL: I CAN: I MUST BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: Be gentle and kind in understanding yourself: Accept full what Darlene has said to you: It was not my fault: I did nothing wrong: I am not to blame: He was a groomer a pedophile: He was unfair to me and my friend: He played on our innocence and our vunerability: Know josie after speaking with a counsellor all this will be put in perspective for you: NOW get on with living your life to the full: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes this is the natural way forward for you: Become active and alive with your peers: Your own age and gender taking part in sporting and cultural activities: You'll make real friends and have many aquaintances for life who will allow you be yourself and value and respect your giftedness and your wonderfull mature thinking persoality: Love yourself: Be gentle and kind to that me looking out at you from the mirror: Build up your SELF ESTEEM and a good mirror image of yourself: Your motto I will: I can: etc: Josie Think positive: Act positive: Be positive in all you do and say about yourself: My Motto: I will; etc: Darlene with all her visitors who have read your story want what is the best for you: I want the best for myself too: Ok off your bottom now and get having a healthy mind in a healthy body:

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