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Feb 13, 2010
Jezzelyn:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. Let me be clear, your stepfather did not cheat on your mother with you; he did what he did to you. You weren't the "other woman"; you were molested by a sick excuse for a human being. And if you don't tell, he will continue to molest children, because sex offenders do not change their ways until they are made to stop. It may well have stopped when you were 15 because he found someone else, someone younger. Your mother is living with a sex offender of children, Jezzelyn...she needs to know that. It won't "kill her". It will tell her the truth about the monster she brought into your life. And he needs to face the consequences of his criminal acts. Please contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially.

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Feb 14, 2010
Hi . your a young thinking adult now
by: Maurice

Jezzelyn, please oh please read the caring loving words of Darlene from her heart to you. They are just for you so take them to your heart. Stop hurting/paining from what that horrible man of a step-father did to you. Darlene put him in perspectibe a molester, a child abuser, serious. He used your, abused you, he took away your innocence of a child and a teenager at the most important time of your maturing in your sacred time of your puberty years. Don't you be protecting him. He is an animal of the human male speciaes. New-Beginnings for you will give you a life worth living. Darlene is a winner over abuse, she has given hope to 100's that there is life after abuse. Your Mother will stand by you, she truly needs to know what that sicko of a stepfather did to you. He does not LOVE her. he used her to get at you as a child/teenager. Darlene is perfectly right he is abusing other children NOW. Please Stop HIM. Jezzelyn. you are brave, you are strong, it is great you found Darlene#s site. Always believe in yourself. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. get a life for yourself now by mixing with your own age group at school/college in team sports/ and cultural activities/ Mix and intergrate ntaurally with your peers. I CAN DO IT, I WILL DO IT, I MUST DO IT, BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT. SAY THAT AGAIN, MAKE IT YOUR MANTRA FROM THIS DAY ON. I AM WORTH IT. So off your bottom, check if there is a therapist around you locally, share in total confidence with him/her. I know you have a friend or two whom you have shared in intimate dialogue. A true friend is the golden nugget each of us searches for. This friend is above your natural boy/girl relationshiips. this friend will be there for you through your good times and when life is not going as good for you. they'll stand by you, hug you, cuddle you, laugh with you, cry with you dry your tears. hold your hand and help you find the counsellor/therapist. Get Darlene's loving comment and message to you. Look in the mirror and build up your self-esteem/self worth. remeber I'M WORTH IT. be gentle and kind on yourself and the body taht was brutally abused by that animal. soothe over that horrific memories of it all. cream those parts back to their oringinal beauty (all yours) since the day you were birthed. 'Hi' hug yourself in front of that mirror make yourself feel good. be gentle and kind Jezzelyn on yourself. Go tell on that beaast of a STEPFATHER.

Feb 21, 2010
Only You Can Stop This Abuse
by: Shattered Mind

In the words of the owner of the site, you are not the other woman, you are a rape victim. You may not want to hear this, but you need to go to the police about this issue, plain and simple. I know it is a lot easier said than done. I will not lie to you, if you go to the police, you'll still have a long and bumpy road ahead of you. First, you'll have to deal with the emotional affects this will have on your entire family. Secondly, your stepfather will be put on trial. The trial itself will most likely take an emotional toll on you as much as being raped. However, this bumpy road will not last forever. Turning to the police is what you need to do in order for this abuse to stop. If you do not stop this abuse soon, then who knows what will happen to you in the long-run.

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