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Mar 05, 2012
 Jessy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your parents are concerned about you, and they have every right to be. You are not in a position to say that lashing out isn't about being abused. The fact is, you're very angry. Hitting someone is not the answer, be it you or your brother. You don't know what you don't know, Jessy. You DO need help, and not just with what happened to you at the hands of this pedophile. You need help dealing with what's making you angry in the first place, and finding an appropriate outlet for that anger. And I would say the same for your brother. Violence is NOT the answer. Violence will create more problems as you move through the various ages and stages of your life. The fact that your father actually questioned why you didn't hit this pedophile suggests that you are to blame, which is so not true! He was way out of line making that statement. None of what happened was you fault. NONE OF IT! The fact that you were vulnerable to that pedophile's attention tells me that there are problems in your life that make you vulnerable, and that they start at home. You do need help, Jessy, but for a lot more than just what happened at the hands of that pedophile. And there is no shame in that. No shame whatsoever. You did nothing wrong. If help is being offered to you, go for it. And go for it with your head held high. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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