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Apr 30, 2011
Jessica:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

None of us who were abused gets through it by ourselves. We all need to reach out for help somewhere along the way; otherwise, we can't find the path toward healing and recovery. What happened to you at the hands of your brother was not your fault. You have no guilt or shame to bear. Guilt and shame is squarely on the shoulders of your brother because he chose to sexually offend you. You were a child. He took advantage of that and of your vulnerabilities, and he used them against you. He "groomed" you, Jessica. And now you're blaming yourself for something you have no blame in. Please reconsider your stance on getting professional help. A counsellor can help you deal with the repercussions, as well as the self-blame. You deserve that kind of help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 03, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

For sure Jessica: Darlene sure put you in the picture none of what your brother did to you was your fault: She know best when she gives loving advice like that to a very special child, adolecent: Do get help: I am sure you have one maybe two very close friends who will walk with you: Listen to you and be your strength to get the help Darlene so kindly put a real meaning on your brother grooming you: Now special one take charge of your own destiny: Stay in education: be active and alive in taking part in the school or college Physical Education program: This in turn will help you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Take part with your own age and gender in team sports: It will work wonders for you: Clear your head of thinking inward: Letting go very slowly but surely all that sicko of a sibling did to your body: Sexual abusing you in your vunerable years as a small child: NO child is to blame with the bad, bad people out there who perform all kinds of abuse on them: Jessica: be certain of that this will help you to let go: Darlene herself has proven to us all that there is a full life to be lived after having been abused as a child: Her abuse was severe and cruel too: So take a leaf out of life's book and be a winner over your Brother abuser: Let your Motto be I WILL I CAN I MUST BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: That you are Jessica: I'M SPECIAL AND I AM WORTH IT:

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