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Mar 29, 2011
Jessica:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

While I understand your rage and you fighting back, it was extremely dangerous. If you're still in that home and you are a minor child, you are in a very dangerous situation. Please contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about what you are dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help. You didn't and don't deserve to be abused. You most definitely deserve help for the fact that you were. The fact that your family refused to step up and protect you is despicable. You'll need to deal with that betrayal and abandonment as well. A counsellor can help you with that. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 30, 2011
God fearing: God Loving
by: maurice

Jessica H you are one brave, strong and courageous child of God and the Universe: Asking your family members why they did not safeguard you from that Animal/Beast: when they said we did not want to get into it: " Cowards" all of them be the male or female: Saw this lovely, beautiful innocent child and teenager being cruelly and sadistically abused by this ignorant, beast with animal instict of the male species leave marks, weilds on her little body with his belt, punches, kicks: How could any decent person of the human species allow that happen to an innocent, vunerable child/adolecent: Jessica H be brave, be strong, have courage to go for counselling: Darlene has as always given you her woman's heart feeling words of advice: encouragement, love, affirming to do what you know to be best for yourself now: Begin slowly to take charge of your life: I sincerely hope you have a friend or two your own age and gender whom you call friend (s) nearly all children I know including myself have that special one who knows all our secrets: while they are at a loss to do anything yet just telling them gives relieve and builds a trust: I would dearly like you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes: Jessica H get out and about with your fellow class mates/students playing team sports: getting involved in sporting and cultural activities: Your whole world will change; your thinking will change: you'll see yourself and that beautiful body of yours NOW in a different perspective and natural: That beast damaged it's tenderness and beauty but with care, love, and your love you are making it your beautiful body once again: A counsellor will help you let god of all that beast/Animal did to it and you physiaclly, sexually, emotionally, humiliating you too in the pricess: Jessica H Darlene has proved there is a life to be lived to the full even after horrific abuse done to us as children: She's a winner: A great steward of her website even now when she is away from home relating and lectureing she devotes some of her day to writing comments that she knows witll beenefit you personally and all her many visiitors: act on her words and show off your giftedness/tallents and your leadership qualities on the playing fields: I will: I can: I must: because I am WORTH it:

Mar 30, 2011
Jessica H.
by: GPM

I am so proud of you for actually fighting back against the "tyrant". When I was your age I used to go to the movies where John Wayne would bust up the bad guys to teach them a lesson. While you may not have taught your abuser the lesson he really needs, (like about 20 years in jail), you let him know you're not too far from never having his abusive behavior heaped on you again.

Now about those hurtful things he has said to you. These words are coming from a very miserable and mean-spirited person. And his words are just like his character, worthless. They are meant to torment you, to enhance his preceived power over you. In short, he gets his psychotic thrill by hurting you because he is nothing more than a "bully". Being the bully tyrant is probably why the rest of the family doesn't intervene. I'll bet he's very intimidating- a scary person the other family members would rather avoid.

Jessica, you don't have to tolerate this person if you don't want to. But you will have to go outside the family box. Go to the local law enforcement people and don't take no for an answer. And don't be afraid to ask for any help available to you.

By the way- you are not a mistake in life. You are life.

Mar 30, 2011
I'm sorry
by: Anonymous

Jessica, I can't believe that your mom and relatives would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick monster of a father and even allow him to beat and berate you everyday...how dare she! That sadistic coward of a father is wrong. You are not fat; you are not ugly; you are beautiful. You are not worthless; you are worthy of love, dignity and respect. He is a coward because only a coward would do such things like that to such a helpless little girl you once were. You are not to blame for his sadistic behavior; he is to blame because he chose to abuse and torture you. You were the child; he was the adult. He had all the power and he misused it over you. If he didn't want to be there, he should've had the courage to leave instead of abusing you. The path that he, your mom and even your relatives chose is inexcusable, so the sooner you tell, the better. Darlene is right! Please tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you.

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