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Oct 16, 2010
Jessi:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You were betrayed by the justice system. But you showed great courage disclosing to your father, and then going through with the court case. You can take solace in one thing, however. The fact that this man was on trial for child sexual abuse could come back to haunt him if and when he ever does it again. Just because he was found not guilty does not mean that it didn't happened; it just means that there wasn't enough evidence to convict him, given our system. As for you needing to sleep with multiple partners, you are looking for love that you cannot find. Please seek out some form of counseling to help you deal with the repercussions of all that has happened in your life, even the stuff you don't remember. You've been very lucky so far, but that luck will run out if you continue along the path you are now walking. You deserve so much better than that. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 17, 2010
There' s HOPE & LOVE there: I'M SPECIAL
by: maurice

Jessi JT Don't Quit: Don't give up on yourself: Stop doing yourself down: There is a inner strength saying to you I want help after all I've been through and put myself through: New Beginnings from TODAY on Jessi JT; You'll have to work at it though: My motto will be: I CAN: I WILL: I MUST: BECAUSE I (ME) IS WORTH IT: That is my message to you Jessi JT; Where do I start: Read Darlene's comment to you slowly, over a few times: You are highly intelligent as well as scattered in your thinking: Your life NOW & in the FUTURE is in your own hands: So cuddle and hug yourself for a start, saying there is goodness and greatness in me still: After all I've been through: Darlene's wants the best for you especially in her loving heart feeling words of love, support and encouragement: You are a big girl/young woman NOW please read her words of advice to you: They are words of affirmation too: Hi Jessi JT do you want the best for yourself: Kick bottom if you do and get into therapy thinking positive about it: You will benefit no end if you listen and learn from your therapist: You were let down badly by the justice system, Darlene has given you words of love where that is concerned: Jessi JT You be a winner over all those who messed you up: Abused you: Stop rambling into people and places that keep bringing you down: Build up your self-esteem: rememeber BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: Get a real buddy/friend who you will listen to and trust and whom you can trust: A true friend is a jewel Jessi JT: A female your own age maybe even two who will tell you gently Jessi JT stay away from people and places that are not good for you: Change your daily routine by having a healthy mind in a healthy body: MOve away from the morass of life you've been through and get out there being active and alive with likeminded people females your own age taking part in team sports and cultural activities: Oh God is he mad asking me to do that: No I am NOT: rem my motto I CAN etc: Once you live out Darlene's loving affirming advice you'll change your lifestyle's and LOVE yourself to bit's: Look in that mirror: From this day on I am going to see the real, beautiful, loving, gifted, tallented me not the piece of S''T my life has been through no fault of mine: Be gentle and kind Jessi JT: soothe your body all over with nice scenting cream and oils erasing all the negative stuff from your thought and felling about yourself: I too want what is the best for you: Hi you must seriously want it for youself too: You have Darlene and her many visitors empatising with you: Thank you for arriving at her safe haven site in your cry for real help: Now off that bottom of yours and go for counselling first: don't run away after the first few sessions stick with it: Be brave: Be strong: Persevere: Don't quit: Don't give up on Jessi JT

Oct 19, 2010
God loves you and wants to help you .
by: Lisa

Hi Jessi,

I'm a 46 yr old woman and I was abused by my Dad and my brother when i was a young child. 2yrs ago i hit rock bottom, i gave my heart and life to Jesus Christ and my life has changed in amazing ways. My Dad died when i was 25,but i have forgiven him. Last week,I just confronted my brother and Mom on the things that happened to me in my childhood.I could never have done any of this on my own. i rely daily on the strength that God gives me and that's what allowed me to finally face my fears and deal with the abuse and the people responsible. My brother admits he did it, but there is no remorse or compassion for how it effected my life.My Mom and my brother refuse to accept responsibility for what they did, so i will not have any contact with them until they do.

Now I feel like 10,000 pounds has been lifted off my shoulders and i am finally free to be healed of the pain and guilt and shame i have carried for 39 yrs.

I urge you to go to God in prayer and commit your life to him, so he can help you face this head on and then he will be able to heal you. You can be free and start a new life full of hope, peace, joy and love.God's love changes everything.Surrender it all to Him and let him show you his love in WONDERFUl ways, i guarantee you will not regret it. I will be praying for you. God Bless you.

Nov 03, 2010
I'm sorry
by: Leslie Leiva

I'm sorry this happned to you i dont judge you....you should read this book called The Healing Journey of Sexual abuse by Wendy Maltz it has helped me alot to understand what happend and self control...hope it helps...

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